happy life for me..you only live once~make it count
If someone's happiness depended on my being unhappy, then I wouldn't want them in my life.
I was in that type of situation for 2 years and realized how powerful hope can be. Once I realized that I could never have what I really wanted in life with the man that I had, I left. I've been so happy and at peace ever since!!!
I chose an unhappy life to make others happy. The problem is they're not, so I will be soon choosing a happy life for myself. Decided I can't live for other people anymore.
my happiness is my own responsibility. someone else's happiness is their responsibility.
This right here is a tough question for me.
If someone is unhappy and suffering from pain, victimization, and or other problems, then I would give up my happiness for him or her.
sometimes giving happiness to others makes me feel happy,,,,,,,actually all the time.
I tend to sacrifice my own happiness to make sure someone else is happier, bu then knowing someone is happy because you made the right decision isn't always a sacrifice, even if the decision left you unhappy
an unhappy life cant make others happy.
Depended if I disliked the person I would be making unhappy or If I loved the person I would be making happy.
Let me rephrase.. I would have no problem making someone unhappy that I disliked to make myself happy.. on the other hand.. If I could make my daughter happy, even if it meant me being unhappy, I would do it in a second.
I did choose an unhappy life to make another's Happy. :)
No, it was a completely different situation.
Grumpy people usually aren't very successful at making others happy.
some people like my self chose to make others happy in turn that makes me happy.Some people are just like that and our lives would never be unhappy regardless.
tough question! it would depend on the person. For my wife, absolutely. For a neighbor who pissed me off...no way!!!
I believe that each person is responsible for his/hers own happiness. How can you make others happy when you are not happy?
I am choosing unhappiness over happiness. I am so concerned about breaking my two daughters hearts (3 and 5) by splitting up with their father. He drinks too much and we have no relationship, I do not feel love from him but the kids love him to bits. They are happy, he is happy as long as he has cider and cigs, I am lonely.
It depend on that person. For my kid, I most def would. For my family I would but for anyone else who don't give a stick about me, I wouldn't.
That's exactly what is happening to me now, what I have been asking myself. He asked her before I could speak up to him, he obviously loves her but I think I have even more love for him, even though he doesn't see it. I cannot just forget him, and just wish them happiness, like I always thought I would. I love this man... . I love this man, and he asked her... ...and I feel like it's so wrong because I love him more than anything, and have loved him for years. I've never been this desperate myself about someone. I think he was supposed to be my life partner, instead. People must think I am totally crazy. I even broke emotionally down when he asked her and stuff. But I truly love him, so I cannot let him go... . I believe that there is a reason why I met him, and that we will meet again for a 2nd chance. I love him so much my body hurts, I cannot eat or drink much. I really cannot let him go, as much as I always thought that I could. In my heart, this man belongs to me... . And I am sorry if I ruin their marriage, I really spoiled his engagement to her because she never knew about me, by bugging in with telling him just how much he still means to me, and know I should not do that as a good girl one the one hand, but I just love him too much to see him with her, and not me. I would always have wished for his happiness, and then there is her... ...and I totally understood that I love him even more than I probably ever showed him... . Now that he has got eyes for her. I love you, Mark P. I think we were supposed to be, I'm sorry, man. Will always love you. This has never happened to me. Sorry for ruining your big day.. ...but I love you probably even more than she does...? I don't think my heart can ever let go off him. Things are not the same for me, anymore. I know that he wants me to get my life right because he is not a social worker, and I will still have to prove it to him that I am willing to change. He is not good at seeing people unhappy. I do not hate her, for I never knew he had her in his life... ...she's just taking up "my" place, where I should be now. I believe he is a soul person to me. A very special person. I should be angry with him for leaving me crying but I cannot. He is not good at expressing his feelings. Didn't have the best of childhood, a bit like my own story. I think that he prefered her over me because she didn't have childhood issues, and he wants to feel a bit of that happiness she had, too, this lighthearted feeling, and she has more self-esteem but I think that I should be the person for him, even if he believes that it's her, now. He wants something that he hasn't found within himself all his life, and I secretly know... ...that's why he picked her. I still believe he should be with me because we will work it out, together, each one on his own, and together. It fits but he's simply blinded by her "easy" lifestyle, now. Instead of taking on m
I am sorry to hear you are having a hard time at the right now. If you keep holding onto him even when he wants to go with her, let him go and wish him well because nobody in your circle is. You need a peace of mind. I know it is very hard letting him go and I know it is also very very painful but you will feel more like yourself eventually once he is gone however long it takes to grieve for your loved one. Be strong.