Would you consider moving from a big bustling city where you grew up in to a small slow city?
i used to live with my mom, she passed away 3yrs ago and things havnt been going great for me. I was in a relationship with this guy who knew i had nobody to stand with me so he dint treat me as well he would if he knew that there will be someone to stand with me if he ill treats me. this has broken me and i'm considering to move to the city my father lives in. He has his family there and i will live separately from him. it will be a huge cultural change too. I have tattoos and other habits that will raise eyebrows in that city. Also life is very relaxed there, a little irritating quite frankly.
I dont know should i stand my ground and deal with things as they come or escape to another city and have someone there to help me whenever i need too. If i hadnt fallen in love i was doing fine.