I think you could find an attraction, even share personal things and such...but to say, 'this is my girlfriend or boyfriend' and I've only met them online...hell no. If the direction is going in that way...you would HAVE to meet them in person and get to know them better before you could even think of saying officially, 'this is my boyfriend or girlfriend'. If someone told me that...and I said, 'oh how did you meet'...and they said 'we haven't yet, it's just online'...it would make me go :/ 'eeks'.
hell no, sounds like they would be a pretty lonely, pathetic person.
Not online .. X
Yes, we dated off and on for a couple year, and now I've been living with her for almost 2 years.
Friendship variants only...I refuse to go that far.
No you cant have cyber sex, and that you are in a real relationship!!! so no way
Sure and we could have cyber-sex on our honeymoon.
absolutely...it isnt sad...actually you can really get to know someone online without all the phusical stuff getting in the way...it is about quality of communication....and if you have this you have much more than some people in real life have....
The point here even if you have a beautiful mind melt online there is always the physical reality....sometimes this can work and sometimes it just doesnt....I met this woman a few months ago...we talked for a little while online and I was getting excited....but when I met her for coffee there was nothing there...we talked and thats as far as it went..it felt v ery odd...second time she came for coffee I had nothing to say...I felt dead...
When I meet someone I need this feeling..it is hard to explain but if it isnt there then you really have little to go on...
Something I learnt and it really got me in trouble. After talking to someone and sharing many dreams and desires...I went to visit....I knew immediately she was not what I had envisaged....it was just bang in my face....I had travelled a long way to see her so I made the decision to try and it all went horribly wrong emotionally for me..
Just be honest with yourself and be real to you...
I had an online girlfriend once. No one could tell when we were together or not; "You two are always on and off", they would say to me. My internet connection was very unstable at the time.
to meetthem on line share you dreams and hope to one day meet; yes.
to say this is the love of my life, no.