Would you forgive someone you loved if they said something that really hurt you?

15 Answers to "Would you forgive someone you loved if they said something that really hurt you?"

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   Posted by juliegirlie Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:38PM

   depend how they hurt me :
   * unintentional = I forgive the fact !
   * intentional = I forgive the person !
   lol

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   Posted by thoughtbubble Feb 11th, 2012 at 4:42PM

   I have, many times with different people. I have always benefited.
   At times, I would have difficulties, FORGETTING, if it was as dramatic as "I should have never met you" . etc.
   But, then everytime, I remind myself that I have already forgiven. LOL.

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   Posted by atadir Feb 11th, 2012 at 4:28PM

   i've tried and tried, and i've never succeeded.
   cruelty and contempt are hard to forget.

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   Reply by EmRose14 Feb 11th, 2012 at 4:29PM

   Aw :( did they apologize?

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   Posted by 151rby Feb 11th, 2012 at 1:11PM

   If it hurts enough I stop loving them altogether.

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   Posted by LeetalDeval Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:44PM

   I believe that when dealing with real and true love, no act is unforgivable :/

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   Reply by toistory Feb 11th, 2012 at 2:33PM

   I believe u r correct in your thinking.

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   Reply by LeetalDeval Feb 11th, 2012 at 2:48PM

   Why thank you :)

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   Posted by Paschar Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:42PM

   If I know it to be true then there's nothing to forgive them for and no hurt implied when they can see the facts and let me understand how they truely feel , The truth helps us both in the end results .

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    Posted by toistory Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:38PM

    This is a great question, perhaps you should contribute. I have a weird circumstance where I am always having to search for forgiveness on what wasn't said.... isn't it ironic?

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    Reply by EmRose14 Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:40PM

    Oh wow I think I have that same problem with someone... That's almost worse!

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    Reply by toistory Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:59PM

    I am not sure about worse but yeah you're right I do have the same issue as me. Now that's a double negative, isn't it?!?!

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    Posted by forlorn3 Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:38PM

    Generally, though there are some things you cannot forgive easily like "Get out you disgusting (insert vile word here, duck from pan being thrown at your head"

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    Posted by Alive2011 Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:38PM

    Depends on what they said

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    Posted by roastlamb Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:37PM

    did forgive and forget

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    Posted by drummerboybeatle Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:37PM

    Hurt me? Like.............
    "You like my new shoes?"

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    Reply by EmRose14 Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:38PM

    Hm like they said something like they wished they had never met you.

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    Reply by toistory Feb 11th, 2012 at 2:36PM

    I've heard these exact words and read them as well.. its a horrible thing to bare ears and eyes to.

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    Posted by paclark Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:36PM

    Yes, but usually I would have to examine what they said to see if there was any truth to it. Sometimes it hurts more if there is some truth.

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    Posted by Mariner2 Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:35PM

    I think that's part of loving!

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    Posted by whatizmu Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:35PM

    Yeah, but we would have to talk about it. I would also do The Work on it, and to be honest I would be grateful to some extent. Our loved ones can show us where we need to grow, and where we have blind spots. The painful thing they said might be a really big gift in disguise.

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    Posted by AllegorieBootlair Feb 11th, 2012 at 12:35PM

    OFC, Love is never having to say you're sorry....pain is just part of life...However if they don't love me then that can be a problem....cuz they may just keep on hurting me until I have to let them go....

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