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My friend married my abusive ex like maybe 2 weeks ago, and now she is calling me constantly begging me to help her leave him. He trapped her just as he did me. I told her before they got married what was going to happen, and she ignored me and did it anyways.. Should I find it in my heart to help her, or let her suffer because she did it to herself?
imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 17 Answers Nov 19, 2012 in Parenting & Family

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Only help if you like drama. Otherwise, just stay away from people like them.

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No she should of been there for you, karma is a ***** now look at her, she was never your friends if she married your ex

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Whoa! Go with your gut is telling you.

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I've done that before.. would say I regret it but I prefer to learn from my mistakes.<br />
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she was my 'best friend' for like 2 years, not long but we were SOOO close. the whole time we were friends she talked about me behind my back constantly, lol.<br />
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I've helped her out since then but if you do, it just gives them the invitation to carry on treating you like ****.

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I think in this situation, if I had been there and done that I would know what kind of an a$$hole he was and I would hope someone would have helped me out of this situation. Be the bigger person and help her. Karma truly exists

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Wait- how has she bertayed you?

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If you go to church, you know the challenge is to help her. God does say to forgive through you, but don't forget.

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I dont go to church nor do I believe in god. But thanks

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After only 2 weeks ? The man must be a bit of a monster.<br />
I see it this way, if you do help her after what she did you can basically name your price.

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he almost killed me multiple times while we were together, he is a monster.. and she knew this, witnessed what he did, and still married him..

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Is she still your friend? If the answer is yes, be kind and help her out of this situation she got herself into. You'll both laugh about it later.

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No not really I tried to cut my ties with her, and she still seems to think that I will be there for her. Because in the past I would of been there for her no matter what she did to me, but I am tired of allowing her to hurt me and still be there when she calls on me..

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Well, then the answer is no, and let her get herself out of this mess.

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Why is she still your friend in the first place.....????

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She really isn't I cut my ties with her when I found out that she was with him, but she seems to think that I am still there for her and calls on me..

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give her the number of someone who can help her.....you do not need to put yourself in that situation.....:)

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yeah id help her. but id make it known to her that she is a crazy fool.

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If you are her friend, help her.

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