Would you help a friend that betrayed you beyond belief ?
My friend married my abusive ex like maybe 2 weeks ago, and now she is calling me constantly begging me to help her leave him. He trapped her just as he did me. I told her before they got married what was going to happen, and she ignored me and did it anyways.. Should I find it in my heart to help her, or let her suffer because she did it to herself?
15 Answers to "Would you help a friend that betrayed you beyond belief ?"
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Only help if you like drama. Otherwise, just stay away from people like them.
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Nah babe, enjoy the show, I'll bring you over some popcorn, she brought it on her bloody self, she made her own bed now she can lie in it. Not much of a friend if you ask me!! Women who go for the friends sloppy seconds are just scrags to me and I'm sick of society feeling that they need to help these stupid bimbos who can't seem to ever help themselves :/
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Ps get a new number too babe ;)
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Pps TIME TO BREAK THE CYCLE, she got herself into the mess so let herself get out of it otherwise she will drag you down with her. I've been the idiot who went back to my ex best friend of nearly 8 years to have her turn around and completely stab me in the back during my pregnancy so **** them babe they are dogs and you've got to let sleeping dogs lie ok as they will only bite you in the end and I'm speaking from experience **** all this god bs as I'm sure you'll be cursing yourself and whatever religion you choose to follow if you choose to help this stupid dumb ***** out. Do what I didn't do and change your number and say stiff **** ***** you married the bastard now your in it on your own stupid dumb desperate *****. Don't become bitter like me by being the nice kind doormat and just think of yourself as you don't get a fkn medal for being nice and docile...
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No she should of been there for you, karma is a ***** now look at her, she was never your friends if she married your ex
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I agree!!!
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Whoa! Go with your gut is telling you.
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I've done that before.. would say I regret it but I prefer to learn from my mistakes.
she was my 'best friend' for like 2 years, not long but we were SOOO close. the whole time we were friends she talked about me behind my back constantly, lol.
I've helped her out since then but if you do, it just gives them the invitation to carry on treating you like ****.Like (2)
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I think in this situation, if I had been there and done that I would know what kind of an a$$hole he was and I would hope someone would have helped me out of this situation. Be the bigger person and help her. Karma truly exists
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Wait- how has she bertayed you?
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If you go to church, you know the challenge is to help her. God does say to forgive through you, but don't forget.
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I dont go to church nor do I believe in god. But thanks
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After only 2 weeks ? The man must be a bit of a monster.
I see it this way, if you do help her after what she did you can basically name your price.Like (1)
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he almost killed me multiple times while we were together, he is a monster.. and she knew this, witnessed what he did, and still married him..
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That's a toughie, you can always help her and know that you're the better person ? Or point her in the direction of the right resources and let her help herself ... No one should be tortured in an abusive relationship.
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Is she still your friend? If the answer is yes, be kind and help her out of this situation she got herself into. You'll both laugh about it later.
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No not really I tried to cut my ties with her, and she still seems to think that I will be there for her. Because in the past I would of been there for her no matter what she did to me, but I am tired of allowing her to hurt me and still be there when she calls on me..
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Why is she still your friend in the first place.....????
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She really isn't I cut my ties with her when I found out that she was with him, but she seems to think that I am still there for her and calls on me..
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give her the number of someone who can help her.....you do not need to put yourself in that situation.....:)
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yeah id help her. but id make it known to her that she is a crazy fool.
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If you are her friend, help her.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by submissivelittlewoman 1 Nov 19th, 2012 at 1:35PM
you tried to warn her and it went on deaf ears...stay out of it.
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