Would you marry someone who is emotionally unstable ?
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Posted by angelicsmiles Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:14PM
If their issues are coping from the past, these can be slowly and steadily be dealt with over time with understanding and compassion. At times it might mean I would take the brunt of it too. If I love him enough, it would not stop me because I would be prepared to stand by him and help him overcome.
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Reply by zonus Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:20PM
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Posted by stephaniebis Apr 24th, 2013 at 11:57AM
Perhaps if I really loved that person, I would have a long engagement period. I would talk over the emotional problems with her, and let her know that I'd be with her because se stability might mean a big difference for her, as does your honesty in communication.
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Posted by SimplyGlorious Jan 31st, 2013 at 2:36PM
Nope! Probably not a good idea to have two of us in the same house. ;-)
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Reply by zonus Jan 31st, 2013 at 2:41PM
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Posted by chocomint Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:45PM
That marriage is doomed to fail
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Posted by abro4irfun Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:04PM
No. Knowing that the person is emotionally unstable, those are huge red flags if you get married anyway.
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Posted by petul Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:04PM
people just become who they are if it is defined by how they feel and react to things as a result of their past and no med can change that only comfort it
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Reply by zonus Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:21PM
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Posted by teenab Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:03PM
DEPENDS...
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Posted by Rolle2323 Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:59PM
You can't always tell who is and who isn't emotionally stable right away...but some great clues are...too much alcohol....drug use...wild behaviour...morose or depressed behaviour...hostility...abusiveness...etc etc.
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Reply by zonus Jan 31st, 2013 at 1:21PM
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Posted by donotfollowme Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:58PM
no
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Posted by jeffonep Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:54PM
only if they were fully committed to dealing with it in a real and meaningful way.
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Posted by SpilledSecrets Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:52PM
nope. One of the best things about my husband is he's stable. My last boyfriend was emotionally unstable and needy and selfish as it is, I don't want to deal with that for my whole life. You can say "oh, well, I'll work with my spouse to fix it." but **** that, honestly. Get that crap fixed before you enter a marriage cause you don't know if the person will actually get help or not.
Everyone has their issues that others have to put up with, but I would never willingly marry someone that was a constant source of turmoil and drama.
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Posted by Ceridwyn Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:52PM
I did. I gave it 25 years. I walked away 6 months ago.
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Reply by zonus Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:57PM
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Posted by LordR1160 Jan 31st, 2013 at 12:48PM
I think most people marry someone who is emotionally unstable...it's just that the condition doesn't always manifest itself until after it's too late
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