Do I assume you are experiencing a cold hard winter?
From those choices only I must say the latter
Well, cold hands can be warmed up.
If you have cold genitalia your dead or cold blooded.
That would be like shoving a Popsicle up your area ???cant he be obliging and warm it up? Lol
I'd be happy to trial both. You never know what you like till you give it a whirl.