respected. not feared though.
As a boss, respected but by friends, liked - if forced to choose! :)
i would like to be liked but i only get respected
It depends on by who...
I would rather be respected, but even then, it's not required. I respect myself. I don't really care if I am liked or not. I know I'm likeable, and the right people will like me for the right reasons.
Respected hands down.
I want the best of both worlds :)