I'd rather be dominant in life and submissive in the bedroom
That would work out fine - you can work the stressful executive job, and I could take over after work :)
I'm hugely dominant outside of the bedroom. I have hundreds of employees. I tend to be the leader in nearly every situation. My wife, on the other hand, is the quiet one. She's so shy some people think she must be stuck-up or something.<br />
But in the bedroom? I'm the TOTAL submissive. Spankings, floggings, verbal humiliation, ****** denial, cross dressing, etc. She is the total dominant even to the point of pegging me whenever she has the urge! We even share cuckolding fantasies.<br />
It's such a relief to completely give up all the control and allow her to determine what will happen next. <br />
Then when we're done. My man-clothes come back on. She goes back to being "the quiet one" and no one knows our little secrets.<br />
We LOVE it!<br />
Just think...that tough boss you have you scares you every time he walks by...he might be wearing a pink maid outfit and getting spanked over his wife's knee every Friday night!<br />
He might even be me!
I'd rather be dominant in both life and bedroom.
Dominant in life, submissive in the bedroom. I want to demand what a guy gets me for any conceivable occasion and every single breath he takes, and every new friend he makes, and in turn I could perform decently for him, I guess. Although to get logical here, if you were dominant in life (life includes sexual things, that's how life was created) well then you're dominant in the bedroom as well.
I want to be assertive in both!
no kidding...I mean...hello...diversity and all...can you say 'switch' ;} change it up...if nothing else just to be interesting.
I rather prefer dominant in life and submissive in the bedroom. (but why in the bedroom, in my relation is perhaps more important) lol
I'm a switch both ways. I can follow directions when it suits me, and take charge when needed.
I was born a submissive, that means I'm submissive all the time.
Actually, I would prefer to be submissive in all things, but don't challenge me
I can't grasp the concept........epic failure here
This is a new world to me; new terminology ....and maybe my comprehension is malfunctioning......IDK
My job does not allow me to be submissive in life,.....and my wife prefers me to be dominant in the bedroom, and I happily comply,....so, the I have to answer your question - neither.
submissive in bed and dominant in life
Submissive in both, I am a happy loved and cherished pet ^_^
Definitely in both..... have been Dominant for many years now. Hi,<br />
I'm a Dom with 30 years experience, both real time and online. I have enjoyed the lifestyle for many years and enjoy helping others get started the right way. I am not a wannabie and an quite selective who I train. I will consider newbies (curious) and experienced subs. How much experience do you have? Also tell me how you became interested in BDSM.<br />
Message me and let's talk. There is much to discuss.
If only it was that simple.
Dominant in life and submissive in the bedroom
dominant in life and submissive in bed :)
submissive in the bedroom, or anywhere i can be on my knees or bent over being used
I am already dominant in life and submissive in the bedroom lol
Like this question. I am very submissive to my wife in the bedroom, but when it comes to caring for my family, working my job, etc i like to be in control and therefore dominant in those situations where i need to be to ensure that.