Would you sleep with a date on the first night?
68 Answers to "Would you sleep with a date on the first night?"
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No. Never have and never will. In my view, sex is not a commodity . . . it has meaning in the context of a relationship. There has to be something more than a casual interest.
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... another up UPtight republican! TRY casual sex! Fun does not have to be a chore!!!Like (1)
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Hardly uptight, but you have the Republican right (not a social right winger though). Just prefer my intimacy in the context of a committed relationship. Have all the casual sex you like.
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Only if I was REALLY,REALLY, Tired. lol
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I did and he still married me.
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NO! in fact not till your married to the guy...
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Oh! So it's Ownership... not pleasure :) I'd say your Infant avatar... suits you perfectly!
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hm... is that an insult?
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i sleep with grapes every night
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I think you need to get to know someone before you give them the keys to the kingdom.
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Only if she read me a bed-time story!
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guys will say yes, girls will say no...but we know what the real answer is! :)
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"no"
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ive read some of these answers so i guess ill be the realist of the group...its a difficult question to answer...people can say they set values for themselves or they have standards but the truth is thats not morals or standards...thats limitations....there is no way to determine the passion between two people untill its experienced...having morals would be not planning ahead to sleep with a date the first night...but are you less of a person if you do?..i dont believe so not all the time...i consider myself to be old fashioned and a bit beyond my years...but i also let life play out as it wll.....plus i do believe in love at first sight and instant connections....although very rare i feel it does exist...so not the easiest question to answer but a very good one
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I was just trying to put what I was thinking into words, then noticed you did just that! This is exactly how I look at it. It's not something I'd plan ahead of time and it's not really my "style" per se, lol. But I can't determine what will happen in the future. I totally believe in love at first sight as well! Basically, if I was just horny, I wouldn't. I would only ever do i t if I felt a STRONG connection to a guy.Like (1)
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great minds think alike...lol
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I have more than once and even with my wife who I've been married to for 3 years now
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Haven't been on the dating scene in 20 years, but I never did when I was, nor would I if I ever enter the scene again. Don't get me wrong: I *love* sex, but on the first date ? Sorry, that's a little too loose for my tastes.
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Maybe a fig or a banana, but never a date
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I don't know if I would sleep but I would go to bed with her! Plenty of times in the past and I would hope things don't change. I might add most of the time it was her idea.
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I have done, in a distant past. In my wild days. Not proud of it, but not ashamed of it either. It was pretty much the accepted way during the 60s. Peace, love, and flowers.
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wow the 60s were wild times!
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Yeah, but still, in a way; more innocent than now. 12 year olds weren't having babies, 16 year olds weren't taking guns to school and killing their classmates.
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Not usually but I have... once I think.
I actually have waited as long as five months.
I believe that sleeping or coitus shouldn't be the basis of your relationship. You're skipping the proper building blocks to achieve Agape Love...Like (2)
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At this point in my life, no.
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That would depend on who we hit it off
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of course.....
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I prefer to stay awake - it's more fun ;-)
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I have and I don't think any less of the woman for doing so. It's up to what sort of night yo have had I guess
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by MiracleX5 1 Apr 24th, 2012 at 4:01AM
Nope. Why would I????
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