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Would you still talk to your friend even though she told your ex about your recent surgery?

I told my friend I don't want anything to do with my ex husband anymore but she still told him what's goin on in my life right now and that's what made him call me again.Anyway...I stopped talking to my friend cuz I have this feeling that she only wanted info from me to tell him.
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Not if I asked her not to. If the breakup was contentious at all, I would find a new supposed best friend.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 10:10PM
doesnt seem like too big of a deal to me, depending on what you had surgery for. perhaps your ex is still concerned for you...or just nosy. either way, your friend should have consulted you first, but you shouldnt completely disown her for it. dont sweat the small stuff :)
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 8:19PM
is she friends with your ex? if so why would you cut off friendship with your friend when she is friends with someone else? i can understand if you TOLD her you didn't want your ex to know but if not...yeah keep talking to her.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 8:22PM
I'd make her sweat for awhile, then I'd come around!
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 11:19PM
I don't think this is a friendship breaker, unless you specifically told her ahead of time that you did not want your ex to know about your surgery.

Otherwise, it's not a betrayal, it's an indiscretion and most of us do that a few times in our lives. I wouldn't throw away a friendship becuase of it. I would make it clear I would prefer her not to discuss my affairs with my ex.

Is this your ex husband or ex BF?
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