Would you take your guy/girl back if you knew they cheated on you a month ago?

Asked By: LadyHawke68 41-45, F 11 months ago

If you absolutely knew they took someone to a hotel, even if they won't admit it, I mean, fierce denial, but you know and have proof. They keep denying and denying, but you know. Would you take them back?

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Posted by chewyconor Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:19PM

Some people will lie and lie and lie in the hopes that if they stick to the same story enough then people will doubt the evidence they have of the truth and believe them instead.
I did take someone back who cheated on me, although at least they had the courage to tell me. Then they cheated again a few weeks later.
I wouldn't ever take a cheater back again.

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Posted by emogirl3 Jun 11th, 2012 at 9:44PM

Depends on the situation. If you know the reason why he cheated and could possibly fix it? example he needed more love, or someone to be there for him. Than I would forgive him. If you know that he is going to cheat on you again, and that you will never be able to trust him than NO! Good luck.

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Posted by 24luverofchoc Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:36PM

I've been cheated on and fooled at 14. I found out just a few hours after he got with another girl and asked her out. I confronted him and said it was a 'moment of weakness.' So I told him it's either her or me and he chose me but then I just said that I'd feel bad for the other girl and just to go to her instead.
Then a week later he comes back to me saying this new girlfriend was playing with him and asked for me back and I took him back.
A month later, he left me for another girl.

So no, if they've cheated on you once, they'll cheat on you again and that's a fact.

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Posted by willowtre Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:26PM

NO, been there done that. Always was told that there never was anything between them, they were only friends. The last straw after 25 years. Thank God and Greyhound he is gone, Old saying is true Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve better. Every time I caught him, he would have to find another way to cheat, so what kind of life would you have? you would become bitter and resentful. Best of luck to you dear.

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Posted by pegasuss Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:23PM

Not a chance. Why would you consider it or even listen to him. He's full of it if you have proof.

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Posted by FlowingDragon Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:18PM

I'd just give her an extra good ******* a few more times and then dump her.

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Posted by drswiss1 Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:14PM

I couldn't.

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Posted by awaitingclaritytoo Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:13PM

Sure. I cheated her 10 times before she even started it.

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Posted by lifesaversgummies Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:10PM

No, they didn't respect me enough to stay faithful, so why risk getting hurt again.

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Posted by kimmygary Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:08PM

nope nope nope i wouldnt even think about it and you shoundnt either

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Reply by LadyHawke68 Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:11PM

Oh no, I haven't and won't. But the dead set denial, though I know is really dumbfounding. I couldn't imagine how I even could go back, like they'd think rocks outside are smarter than I am. But that's his story and he's sticking to it, and I'm sticking with kicking his a$$ to the curb.
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Reply by kimmygary Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:12PM

good 4 u
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Posted by SoulSucker Jun 11th, 2012 at 8:08PM

No. Absolutely not.

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