You're allowed to believe whatever you want. That doesn't mean anyone else has to <i>agree</i> with you...
reality is what you make of it
Because a lot of times people think there is only one path or one truth for all and try to coarse others to follow their path, because they think since they can't make themselves happy that it becomes you job to do that by following their desires, Not knowing that some people come into this world to buck the norm, to be so different as to say If your going to accept me you'll have to accept we just the way I am.
What do you believe in?