id be with my mother and strive to meet her needs
Doesn't everyone deserve a second chance? Ulitmately you might gain more than you lose. Good Luck xx
I presume your talking about giving your Mum a chance (a second chance?). Well you might gain a friend or even better the mother you lost who knows unless you try. Just a suggestion. :-)
I met my birth mom many years ago as a grown up. I've ditched her, or she's ditched me, for about two years now. I'm preparing for this last chapter of my life. I don't know why, but I'm no longer attached to even her, when she first taught me about unconditional love. Suddenly, I don't need much of anyone anymore.
no, it was great meeting her, spending time with her. But somehow in the gist of every day life, I no longer needed a parent figure anymore. And she has curve of spine, which I inherited, which has led to so many other health problems that the doctors speculate my time here will be cut short by as much as 10-15 years. The excruitating pain I go through, and the lack of any health insurance or treatment which would help, just makes living sometimes a very painful thing. I'm not ever going to get the help I need; I also have ten bones not in place in my head, which could lead to their own set of problems. I'm here now, but I won't be here for the long term.
you're welcome. best wishes to you, too.