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You live in a sexless marriage and get the opportunity to have cybersex. Would you consider this cheating?

You live in a sexless marriage, and one day find the opportunity to have cybersex on the internet with another person. Would you consider this cheating on your marriage?
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Yes it's cheating. But if you live in a sexless marriage your partner has already broken the marriage vows in my opinion. Oh and for those that might slam my answer...I'm not talking about just not have sex as often as you'd like. I'm talking about being refused for months...years. That in my opinion is just as bad as one partner turning to ANY sex outside the marriage
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Answered by a member of the I Live In a Sexless Marriage group
Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 4:29PM
YES....IT'S CHEATING!!! That's a part of you that should be reserved for your spouse....

And what is the point of cybersex, anyway?....have some respect for yourself.
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Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 6:42PM
People have been getting kind of harsh with the answers. I am in a situation that you mentioned. The answer is, yes it is cheating. Your reasons for it maybe justified or not, but bottom line it still is.

I think I know what the reasoning behind the question is, is there anything I can do with someone else that can relieve my sexual frustration without cheating. This is assuming that all talks and attempts with your spouse has failed. I don't know. Even though I do relate with the question and have strong feelings on this issues, I can't deny that it's cheating. I can't say that if my spouse was in the room with me that I would do it.
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Answered by a member of the I Live In a Sexless Marriage group
Posted Apr 29th, 2009 at 12:18PM
Depends......Is there a possibility for it to change to real sex......And will you tell your other half no....if the possibility of real sex came up...To cyber.....

If you answered yes to these questions...Then theanswers is the same...Yes...Big time....

But if you answered no th them....Then one more the answer is the same....No.... It would be just killing time....in a very pleasurable way
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Answered by a member of the I Live In a Sexless Marriage group
Posted Apr 29th, 2009 at 4:25PM
Yes I would consider it if I knew the person well enough ,, and is it cheating ,, yes I suppose it is,,,, but considering the marriage I am in and my husband not keeping his end of the marriage vows.
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Answered by a member of the I Live In a Sexless Marriage group
Posted Apr 30th, 2009 at 7:03AM
As much as I need physical satisfaction I need the support, love, affection and company of my husband even more.

If I were to embark on a cyber relationship and my husband found out he would be devastated, and I doubt I could cope with the guilt I'd more than likely feel.

If this is something you are considering then I suggest you think about it further. I personally would not pursue any form of none platonic relationship unless I was single, even if I was in an unhappy relationship. Which I'm not; only sexless :-)
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Posted May 1st, 2009 at 3:49PM
Nope. The whole concept of cybersex is basically a form of mutual ************, basically a seeking of bodily satisfaction that does not (in my view) have nearly the significance, proximity (physical or otherwise) of a carnal union.
Mentally and emotionally there may be other things to consider, but still I do not think that cybersex in its anonymity amounts to much of a mental or emotional effect that can be compared with cheating in the conventional sense of the word.
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