Oh Christ- I hope not
That's a wonderful saying if you believe your fate has been predetermined.
You believe you determine your own fate and should be at peace with the way it turns out.
I think you are on to something it is the journey we rember
now there's a scary thought
Perhaps there is truth in this. But I have noticed that when people say things like this, often they are in a good situation and they feel it is where they were meant to be because we always feel like that about good situations. It's the bad ones we feel surely must not be meant for us.