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You tell others gender doesnt matter when it comes to love?

You suddenly and unexpectedly fall in love with someone of the opposite gender from your usual relationships. Are you able to accept this scenario for yourself.
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I will be surprised as hell, but I would go with it. Love is surprising and unexpected but love is love.
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Posted Jul 21st, 2009 at 10:11AM
Yes. If they were in love with me too. Love transcends the body.
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Posted Jul 21st, 2009 at 10:11AM
definately. To me gender means nothing when it comes to love.
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Posted Jul 21st, 2009 at 10:11AM
Yes.

But then again I adhere to the whole Kinsey scale thing, where I'd probably say I'm a 4. Me sleeping with a man isn't out of the question, so my falling in love with one isn't either.
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Posted Aug 19th, 2009 at 9:10PM
i guess if i decided i wanted to be with a female i would be. i wouldn't say "gender doesn't matter" but i would say "well, this is the person i am in love with".
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Posted Jul 21st, 2009 at 10:12AM
Going through it...What more i can say.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:41AM
Yes, I will admit that I fall into the wide spectrum of sexuality and it would not matter the gender if I had that kind of connection with someone. It just has worked out that it has been with a man.
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Posted Jul 21st, 2009 at 10:13AM
Ha ha ha ha I can't imagine such a thing but it would sure be a wild ride lol
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:42AM
yes because i am a straight woman who fell in love with a woman that was married to the man i was dating. no i was not the other woman they are swingers so i met her husband who told me he & his wife had a polygamous relationship. ironically i liked him but i totally fell for her. in fact, if she ever divorced him i'd probably want to talk to her again. i've never felt that towards a woman before or after.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:19PM
I've noticed that it is much much more socially accepted for women to admit and they are often the first to admit love for the same sex, without being homosexual.

I love people of the same gender and opposite but i have no sexual desire for the same gender.

And ferina despite what you have been told homosexuality and bi-sexuality are natural, there are other species that do it. Humans have been doing for a long long time. It is also a great natural method for population management, much better then population die off.

So open your mind a little, the world is not what they have been teaching you.
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Posted Jul 21st, 2009 at 10:13AM
Love comes from deep with in your heart and soul regardless of what gender you fall in love with.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 1:05AM
I'm bisexual. I fall in love with who i fall in love with. Whoever that may be.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 1:06AM
No I wouldn't agree! because it's like going against the "law of nature" an cant have love as a lame excuse.The true magnificent love is always best experienced between a man and a woman.But in the "homosexuals" it's the other way..It doesn't mean you have to "marry" them whih means you want to have physical pleasure with the person of same gender,which would definitely not be a long lasting loving relationship.Sometimes people mistake their "intense brotherly/sisterly" affection as "love/physical pleasure"..so,THINK BEFORE YOU ACT..till then take care:)
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 1:45AM
Gender DOES matter to me. I don't walk on the left side. Becoming attracted to someone of MY gender is not even a remote possibility.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 1:59AM
I would be perfectly fine with it. Girls are sexyyy.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 3:39AM
Most definitely. Gender makes no difference to me.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 7:13AM
Wouldn't happen, so the question is moot.
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