Like Mother like Daughter...
sitt'n around, waiting on some hate-mail
my next door neighbors 14 year old...<br />
was Knocked UP by their pastor at this Summers vacation "Bible School" :(<br />
Lap dancing... would have been rewarding by comparison!
I would want to know where she has been, and who she has been hanging around with, to put such an idea in her head. Then I would straighten her out real quick.
Who has she been hanging with?
Wait until your Father gets home!
There's alot of explaining to do there. I know several girls who dance as an art form. They enjoy the attention and it's a helluva good way to pay for college if nothing else is there. On the other hand, if she wants to do it for sex, there's alot to talk about with her and alot to get realistic about with yourself. She needs some serious education on the subject and quick. You can't stop them if they're set on it. Chances are, the wrong half of her mind matured way too soon. It wasn't that long ago when girls were married by 16. In some states they still can be.<br />
Wow! That's a tough one for you. Good luck.
If she says that, you screwed up when she was little.
I'd ask why.
NOT my daughter
Immediate cardiac arrest
I'd feel a complete failure for not having taught her some self-respect. Then she'd be grounded until she was 21, having been fed pudding so no-one would employ her.
I'm so glad i have boys :-p
SLAP THE SH*T OUT OF HER .
Pole dancing i can understand but not lap dancing , the pay is good though and its enjoyable and its good for your health too exercises most of the muscles in your body
I would definitely have a talk and a sociology lesson with her .....and how the hell did she get such an idea. I feel for the girls whom do....do that for a living for some just needed something to survive on others are very emotionally damaged from prior molestations in their early life.
First I'd ask her to describe what a lap dance is, just to make sure she doesn't have it confused with folk dancing from Labrador, or something like that. If she was talking about the sexual dance used to get men off I'd have I'm only 15 tattooed on her forehead.
i would tell her when she is on her own and of age she can do what ever in the mean time i would bring up different stories abt women getting raped! killed and stalked and have her read it to me and pay attention with her of course!
blame her mother ;)
Compared to a lot of other things my kids went through, it would be a relief. "Bless you my child. Stay happy, stay alive. Play safe and always respect yourself. And here, take this .38 revolver." Besides, I'd figure what she wants at that age has little correlation to what other madness is yet to come down the pike.
Tell that if she likes dancing naked for sweaty old men to go for it.