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Your significant other has heard rumors that u r cheating and starts to check up on u. How do u handle it?

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    stronggeorge - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by stronggeorge Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:51PM

    I already have it covered and deny rumors and just say "I have not had sexual relations with that women"

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  1. IMAGINATIONATWORK - 36-40 years old

    Reply by IMAGINATIONATWORK Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    Lol

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20 Answers to "Your significant other has heard rumors that u r cheating and starts to check up on u. How do u handle it?"

  1. violet1698 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by violet1698 Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:55PM

    nothing, since there is nothing to find.

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  2. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MikeWinther Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:51PM

    Apparently the trust is gone

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  3. Richsmoker - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Richsmoker Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:53PM

    Be straight up! If I were getting it at home I wouldn't need to outsource

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  4. Pumpkinseeds - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Pumpkinseeds Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:06PM

    LOL!

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  5. 0ppa - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by 0ppa Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:53PM

    Carry on as usual.

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  6. Creamsicle - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Creamsicle Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:56PM

    Exactly what I thought... if I'm not doin' anything wrong, there aint nothin' for him to find out! LOL

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  7. Helden - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Helden Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    invite him to dinner with my boyfriend....

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  8. 2nddaybliss - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by 2nddaybliss Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:00PM

    Put everything in check. Stop the world and sit down for a reality check. Let this person know that you are a grown adult and that if you wanted to be with someone else you would be. But before that ever went down, they'd be the first to know. No ones stuck with no one and there's no sense causing pain for selfish reasons. Next pack it over for a serious no more b.s. talk with who ever is spreading the trash and tell them to lose both you and your partners numbers.

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  9. luckylassie - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by luckylassie Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:55PM

    we sit down and i knock down each rumour one by one. then i demand to know who told him that? and if necessary tell him to stop being such an idiot to even believe it

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  10. IMAGINATIONATWORK - 36-40 years old

    Reply by IMAGINATIONATWORK Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:56PM

    Exactly

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  11. JustMeBoss - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by JustMeBoss Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:54PM

    It's best to leave that door closed, opening it will drive you crazy

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  12. LilDezVero13 - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by LilDezVero13 Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:54PM

    Not good.. I'd have had this done, nd jus feel like he dont trust me.

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  13. TwattyMcCocknoodles - 22-25 years old

    Posted by TwattyMcCocknoodles Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    just end it

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  14. Randomchance - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Randomchance Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:51PM

    Leave her to check it out.

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  15. Decryption - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by Decryption Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:53PM

    I would do the same here.

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  16. JynxedLeprechaun - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by JynxedLeprechaun Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:28PM

    I'd be upset. never cheated, never will. and yet he has doubts? not cool.

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  17. javajive - 41-45 years old

    Posted by javajive Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:20PM

    some people are instinctively jealous....and it wont hurt if they go through the motions to check you out....that is of course if you have nothing to hide....

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  18. fragments - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by fragments Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:13PM

    Let him check whatever he wants just to show it's not true. But I mean there should be enough trust there that he could take my word. I always make it clear that I have never cheated, and will not cheat no matter what. I've made this a promise to myself as well as anyone I've had a relationship with.

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  19. confusedandlost2 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by confusedandlost2 Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:11PM

    Learn to cover my tracks better.

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  20. carlingblacklabel - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by carlingblacklabel Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:01PM

    She has the keyguard unlock codes for my phones and password for the computers, I'd just get another phone and email account then start cheating on her for real. Problem sorted. I'm now officially a cheat but she can't prove it with rumours.

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  21. Experienced321 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Experienced321 Nov 9th, 2012 at 7:00PM

    road trip

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  22. AmandaCaprieta - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by AmandaCaprieta Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:59PM

    Handle the situation and deny the fact that would ever do something like that or .... apologize making it sound better than it really is.......

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  23. Shebby88 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Shebby88 Nov 9th, 2012 at 6:56PM

    I would feel very hurt, because it's a personal promise to myself that I will never cheat, and I have told my boyfriend this. If he were to ever doubt this I don't know what I would tell him, other than why would he think this and he can look up whatever he has to to prove I haven't. However, if he kept pressing after he couldn't find anything, I don't know if I could still be with him.

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