I love Lolita dresses. The more frilly they are, the better, especially with a fluffy petticoat. We have a couple that we have known for years, she and I are the artistic type while my wife and her hubby are the business type. Three or four times we have gone out to a city sponsored Halloween event/party, and our spouses are ok with it since they are not into costumes to much.

The first time first we went back and forth about what to wear as a "couple" and decided on witches. We both wore a long, taffeta, full skirted black dress we bought on eBay, and with a witch hat, makeup etc. I told her how much fun it was to wear the "dress" (mine had a petticoat under it). She thought that was fun of me to feel that way, so we progressed the next year to wearing Goth Lolita dresses.

I always got dressed in my car so my wife wouldn't know i was actually wearing a dress in public for the evening.That was so much fun, and we both giggled the whole night, especially when other girls would want to take our pictures together. She just smiled and thought it was a fun thing to do. A few years later, 3-4 times a year we now meet at a remote part of a park dressed as sweet Lolitas to play board games for a couple hours - she thinks it is fun to see me wearing a frilly dress and petticoats - and that I'm so open minded to do so. She is such a good friend.

We go back and forth with potential new Lolita dresses to buy online so we can have matching dresses. I love the anticipation of chatting and sharing potential Lolita dresses for our park adventures, as i can't wait to get her next email about the topic. She'll also say stuff like, "you'll be so cute in that Lolita dress I'll want to squeeze your cheeks".
BrolitaGiGi BrolitaGiGi
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I wish I lived near you

I like those puffy petticoats and dont know much about Lolita, but would like to start wearing the look. I wear petticoats everyday in my home. I guess all I need is the dresses. misscdlee@yahoo dot com is my sissy address if u want to chat.

Yes, the Lolita dresses are so feminine and pretty -- and I'm glad they are around now for younger cross dressers to enjoy, as when I grew up I wore little girl's taffeta party dresses and petticoats. Lolita dresses remind me of those dress styles, except today's Lolita dresses are even more feminine with more bows, ribbons and lace.

Would you consider dressing up with another CDer?

lolita is the best kind of dress ever

very pretty

Yes, the Lolita dresses are so feminine and pretty -- and I'm glad they are around now for younger cross dressers to enjoy, as when I grew up I wore little girl's taffeta party dresses and petticoats. Lolita dresses remind me of those dress styles, except today's Lolita dresses are even more feminine with more bows, ribbons and lace.

what a turn on

well i would love to crossdress in lolita type clothe, but it would be awkward telling my parents about it

Yes, they are so pretty and feminine!

I totally agree

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Wow how I wish I could have an understanding wife and friend that would allow me to store my beautiful dresses and wear them and go out in them. Golly how I wish I were friends with you in real life. MUAH with passion

wish you were closer,,, muah

Yes, it would be fun to have a friend to go to the park with, wearing our Lolita dresses and petticoats and have a picnic.

Would you consider dressing up with another CDer?

that is so nice

You're so lucky to have a friend that is as similar minded, that you can trust hun. xox

luv it, too. looking for a playmate in ctrl tx for dressup n photos n such. ur so lucky- support like that is priceless, not 2 mention more fun. i feel sorry 4 those who have 2 hide it so much.

I am really loving the Lolita style and would love to have Lolita,brolita friends to go out dressed up together.

Yes, and we could play hopscotch in the park during our picnic.

Do you have any photos of your Lolita dresses or can you model a couple of them?

ME is Paulapetal14 .you in the u s a are so lucky to have such events as Halloween.ironically it started in my old country Britain.It never really caught on ,because it was too close to Guy-Fawkes night

me---Paulapetal14

you are so lucky to have such a proactive friend and a wife that can accept your little kink.I would love to be in your position

My friend accepts my little kink just fine, my wife not so much, as she "tolerates" it at home, but if she knew I was going out into public dressed like a Lolita girl for Halloween, let alone to the park with our friend – it would not go over so well, to put it mildly.

She knows I would like to do more, but going outside wearing Lolita dresses is off limits with her, (she is an HR person). I only do it a few times a year during the day while she is at work, so it's not like she needs or wants to know I am in public wearing a girly dress.

You mean i could go to Disney World for that day all dressed up and it would be ok?

Yes if its Gay days for sure.

Just try not to get caught by anyone while she doesn't know your doing it.

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cute story - would love to hear more....

We go back and forth with potential new Lolita dresses to buy online so we can have matching dresses. I love the anticipation of chatting and sharing potential Lolita dresses for our park adventures, as i can't wait to get her next email about the topic. She'll also say stuff like, "you'll be so cute in that Lolita dress I'll want to squeeze your cheeks".

from Paulapetal14.you have my life entirely.My wife ,just tolerates it at home
A person who made a sissy dress for me was teeing up an interview for an adult baby on a topical t v show There was going to be visual and voice disguise,When I put this to my wife, she went very cold.Needless to say I never contacted the dressmaker again.Oh what might have been