Divorce At 21

I am fixing to go through my first divorce and I'm only 21. I've been with my husband for 5 years and would have been married for 2 years this May 9.  My husband and I fought constantly because he was too immature and he said I acted like I was 50 instead of 21. We finally got our own place this year and when Christmas came I was excited to put up our first tree. He decided to make plans with a guy who had just got out of prison for cooking dope instead of helping put up the tree. So he left after telling me that it was just a f**king tree. And then I found out that he had been smoking pot with that guy. He promised me when we got pregnant in highschool that he would stop smoking pot. So I left him. I guess it is partly my fault that we are getting divorced because once we got into a fight, he told me he didn't want to be with me anymore and  was in another state for a month without a job and without sending us money. I had gotten a crush on another guy and kissed him. Well my husband asked me about it and I didn't lie. But he supposedly forgave me and we were happy again. Until Christmas.  So here I am living with my Dad waiting to get a job so that I can get a car and my own place to live so that I can start my life raising my son alone.
dreamofme dreamofme
22-25, F
1 Response Jan 5, 2007

I won't state the obvious about your husband. You are very young...get on with your life.