I Ended It Before It Was Too Late.

I was involved with someone for over 2 years. It was a normal relationship in the beginning..of course they treat u with love and respect for a lil bit until u start seeing lil red flags but by then you already love that person so what did i do, i stayed with him and thought he would change. He never did and this is my story.  I let him move in with me because he couldnt affortd to live on his own, shortly after that he started calling me b----,wh---,cu--. every time he got mad at me..he was a bodybuilder and thought i had to be on this special diet just like him.when i would go and get something like taco bell, he would call me a disgusting pig and at one time i came home and he was making turkey burgers and he wiped raw turkey meat on my face and said ur disgusting for eating that fast food. I was sick with a flu a couple days later and i asked him to please help me and pick up my daughter from school since i was so ill. he said no that he had to sleep and i couldnt even hardly get off the couch,..finally i did and he got all up in my face and forced me in to the corner and held onto my arms and yelled at me for bothering him while he was trying to sleep...because i wasnt listenening to him he threw and broke my lamp and my computer desk and pushed me around like a rag doll..I was treated like garbage and to tthink i was helping him out and letting him move in for that...no way...i had to wake up...i knew that if i didnt make him move out i would loose everything i own because of his temper and his moodswings or worse get killed out of his rath of meanstraks. That next weekend he asked to go out for the day to the mall...so we did..as were driving i said it would be nice if we could go out to eat like regular couples but he is on this special diet and cant. he got in such a rage when he was driving with me that he was on interstate and started driving like a maniac and opened my door and said jump o *****...i was done frm that moment...no more crying,no more tears,no more worries or fear,,,just got home from that nightmare and told him if he didnt leave i was gonna call law enforcement...that day he left and has tried to contact me since and i told him to never contact me again...my children and myself are so much happier without him in my life...i feel like i can breathe and not be beaten down,,,nothing was ever good enuf for him and he always saw fault in me...he always had to have things his way because ofhis ocd...this was the worst relationship i ever had and i pray thathe stays away from me. if you have someone in your life like this realize they will not change and its a sickness for them to control you and treat you bad..I lived with this and have some damage that will not heal...he did so many bad things to me that is too much to list but as u can see from what you read it just kept getting worse...i will never waste a nother minute of my time on someone like this and i know now for what redflags to listen to from now on no matter how much i care for the person...your life is meant to be lived not controlled by another human...i hope this helped some of you, good luck...