Flaws and all. I don't judge someone based on what they look like, how they talk, how they feel. No one is perfect. We all have our issues. But it never seems to be reciprocated back to me so I end up hating and devaluing myself.

It kills my self-esteem and confidence. I don't want to stop being open to people but what's the point.
BernadetteAshley BernadetteAshley
31-35, F
7 Responses Mar 29, 2016

Omg exactly my thoughts (( hugs))

So true

Don't change that kind heart of yours, in the end you will be the winner :-)

Don't let it kill your spirit!! You have a good heart lady!

Thank you, Sunny!

Don't change, its them the one's with problems, keep being you

You are right but there's a time when it just drains you dry and it can be discouraging.

you know, I grew up in children's homes. and there was a sign on the wall and I remember it to this day. and that was over forty years ago. I don't know if you have ever heard the saying before or not but I am going to tell you anyway. "everybody is somebody, cuz God Don't Make No Junk"

you have a very valid point there