You Are Who You Are. I Am Who I Am.

Think about it, if someone you knew started trying to change you you wouldn't like it would you? I know I wouldn't because I'm happy with who I am. If they've done something you don't agree with then you don't say something like "You shouldn't have done that. Stop it." you accept that that is who they are. If you are so bothered by something about them that you start trying to change them, then you probably shouldn't be friends with them because you clearly don't like part of who they are, a part that is clearly big enough to bother you.

I'm trying to think of an example but I can't really think of one.... If you're a vegetarian and your friend isn't and you keep pestering and trying to convince them to become a vegetarian even though they've told you numerous times that they don't won't to then that's not very good. (This is not a very good example. -__-;) It is good, however, to have discussions about why you are a vegetarian and why they are a not, a civil discussion, so you can learn more about each other. That's what I'd do anyway. That really was a terrible example!

Basically, unless you're a serial rapist and murderer, I won't try and change you. ^___^

UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom
18-21, F
Feb 11, 2010