As For The Topic, I Am Both Dad And Mom To My 7 Children

I was married to a woman for 19 years, the last 8 years of it was filled with her in bed singing the im bi-polar and cant do anything in life song. 

We divorced, I got the kids she got the money.

I met  a wonderful woman in the yahoo personals, we met, married it is 10 years later, and now I will be Mom on the outside as I was both mom and dad on the inside. My now adult children love me for the both of who I am now, I am in process to being just one parent without the label of dad or mom. Funny thing is that on Dads day I get both a dad's day card and a mom's day card. 

The best of both worlds in one package. Im loving life and my EP friends.
Alasandra Alasandra
51-55, F
5 Responses May 10, 2012

I am so glad you have become who you really are and are happy. You made the right decisions for you.

It feels nice reading how positive and warm story. Thanks for sharing.

I love them all, they are what has kept me alive when the depression set in when my trannyness came to light, if not for the love of them I would have been gone several times. When you get up to 110 mph and you see the bridge ahead of you needing only a slight turn of the wheel to make it happen, then you see your children and what it would mean to them...<br />
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I am very glad to both be alive and healthy to boot now that I am in transition.

Well said. I fairly can relate with that.

I like your story. More and more men would rather have nothing to do with any of their children. Though my mom and dad got divorced when I was very young, he never missed a day with us. He was the best man he could be for us up until the day he died last year. Thank you for being a role model for your children.

You made the best out of a terrible situation. Very happy for you