I lost my mother 2 years ago, 40 days before my graduation. The incident was quick and I haven't even said "I love you" to her. My last call with her was she's asking for what dress she'd be wearing for my graduation and I was in hurry that time so I dropped the call. 5 days after, my sister called me that she left us. That was the most painful memory I could ever have since the day I love my mum. I love her so much. And from that day, i haven't moved on, i am still thinking of her every night before I go to sleep.
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8 Responses May 29, 2015

I'm sorry for your loss. It still be really hard. I wouldn't expect to move on from her death for a while if ever

My grandma would always be with me but 13 days before my birthday she died.And now my other grandma is really sick.I always think of them.



I am sorry my friend. My deepest condolences. Loss of loved one cannot never be filled. I am sure your mom knows that you love her and she loves you as much.
We take the ones closest to us for granted and we forget to show our appreciation and love for them. It a is very common mistake that we all do.
We should take time out for our family and friends and should let them know how valuable they are for us

I'm sorry for your loss. That's a tough break at your age, but look, don't beat yourself up. Your Mum clearly loved you and nothing you did would have altered that love. You didn't fall out with her. You only behaved how most young men do at your age. It's only really when you're older that you look back and wish that you'd done more. I know. Sadly, in your case, you lost your Mum much sooner, but if she could talk to you now, what do you think she would say? She wouldn't say "I hate you! I hope you feel guilty!" Would she? No. She would say exactly the opposite, so don't mope and feel sorry for yourself, honour her memory now by being the son that she would have wanted you to be and remember her as she was. It's early days yet, you have to grieve, but don't get bogged down in remorse. She wouldn't want that. You have my deepest sympathy, my young friend.

many never get to say good bye I do not even know if my wife heard me when I told her I loved her as the plane I was in was falling part on fire from a missile hit and she was killed the next morning

Believe me, I am sure She knows You love her, I am...am really sorry ...

:'( ..I'm so sorry Areacezee...

she knows you love her...they always do. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.