If you are meek, have trouble talking to people, and are overly reclusive, I will probably not be attracted to you.
Ooh there's something about kinda woman that can do it for herself,
I look at her and it makes me proud, there's something about her,
there something, ooh, so sexy about the kinda woman that dont even need my help
She says she got it, she got it, no doubt, there's something about her,
Cuz she work like a boss, play like a boss,
Car and a crib, she about to pay em both off,
And her bills are paid on time,
She made for a boss, Solely a boss,
Anything less, she telling them to get lost,
Thats the girl that's on my mind
- Ne-Yo - "Miss Independent"
EDIT 11/22/08: Ok, I have to admit it. This story sucks ***. Looking back at my own history, that whole thing about not liking reclusive girls is also complete bullshit. The majority of the women I've dated have been the shy, reclusive type. This should be amended (based on a recent relationship) to say: "if you are stupid, closed minded, and ridiculously stubborn, I will probably not be attracted to you."
The fact of the matter is, I really do admire not just strong, confident women, but strong confident people...mosly because they are basically everything that I'm not.
Yes. I DO like Ne-Yo. His songwriting is top-notch popcraft. Can't fault him for that. Also check out: "So Sick," "Because of You" and "Closer" for other examples.