And Now For Something Completely Different! When You're Not a Man Or a Woman...

"Assume no gender"

"Sex is *******, gender is everything else"

(---reserved for an actual story! Will edit in one later!---)

In the meantime, take this gender aptitude test.

http://cydathria.com/ms_donna/ga_test.html

Also, read hir books. I haven't read all of them, but I strongly recommend the ones that I have.

Gender Outlaw: On Men Women and the Rest of Us

Hello Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks and Other Outlaws (I bought this one! I can't find Gender Outlaw anywhere D:)