I After Infidelity-encouragement For Those Who Choose To Stay
Encouragement For 1-7-13 And A Bit Of An Update On Me...
By:
thecheatedon
Written on January 7th, 2013
Good morning....hope everyone is doing fine this great morning ....I, on the other hand, am still battling demons....He and I still really aren't talking....I feel like I always give in (because I love him and want my marriage to work)....so why is he okay with not talking to me?...with us basicly ignoring one another? (maybe he doesn't love me and if our marriage fails..it doesn't really matter to him one way or the other)...So now I feel like I am playing chess...and it's his move...and if he wants this..he is gonna have to tell me and/or show me....I don't want to give in this time...I am tired of this though....(just reminds me how hard it is to stay....it would be so much easier to just walk away right now and not deal with this B.S.).....yet,,,I digress...
O.K. enough of that ....time for some ENCOURAGEMENT....if you are feeling weak today...as I am....I am here to remind you of how strong ...my bad...how TRUELY STRONG YOU REALLY ARE....if you are feeling down and out..wanting to give up...I want to encourage you to hang in there...you are STRONG enough to hang on....if you are doubting yourself...as I am...I want to encourage you to know...that deep down inside of YOU....you know what is best for YOU....and only YOU can make the best decisions for YOU....YOU are still COURAGEOUS, WONDERFUL, INTELLIGENT, and most of all RESLIENT- regardless of what happens or is happening in your life and mine ..it is all there for a reason....a purpose...
So I'll leave you (and I) with these encouraging words...
"This is an important lesson to remember when you're having a bad day, a bad month, or a sh*tty year. Things will change; you won't feel this way forever. And anyway, sometimes the hardest lessons to learn are the ones your soul needs most. I believe you can't feel real joy unless you've felt heartache. You can't have a sense of victory unless you know what it means to fail. You can't know what it's like to feel holy until you know what it's like to feel really f****ng evil. And you can't be birthed again until you've died."
----Kelly Cutrone (Can't believe I am quoting her ...but I think it was well said ..aside from all the curse words)....
And last lastly.....
"Happiness is not the absence of problems, it's the ability to deal with them." ----Steven Maraboli
So, til the next time ...stay POSITIVE AND ENCOURAGED....keep on pushing forward....and I challenge you to encourage someone else...I love it ...it feels amazing..which makes me feel amazing....see...forgot about my PROBLEMS by focusing (positively) on others.....luv it ;-Dng again....(still happy regardless of what is going on around me)
O.K. enough of that ....time for some ENCOURAGEMENT....if you are feeling weak today...as I am....I am here to remind you of how strong ...my bad...how TRUELY STRONG YOU REALLY ARE....if you are feeling down and out..wanting to give up...I want to encourage you to hang in there...you are STRONG enough to hang on....if you are doubting yourself...as I am...I want to encourage you to know...that deep down inside of YOU....you know what is best for YOU....and only YOU can make the best decisions for YOU....YOU are still COURAGEOUS, WONDERFUL, INTELLIGENT, and most of all RESLIENT- regardless of what happens or is happening in your life and mine ..it is all there for a reason....a purpose...
So I'll leave you (and I) with these encouraging words...
"This is an important lesson to remember when you're having a bad day, a bad month, or a sh*tty year. Things will change; you won't feel this way forever. And anyway, sometimes the hardest lessons to learn are the ones your soul needs most. I believe you can't feel real joy unless you've felt heartache. You can't have a sense of victory unless you know what it means to fail. You can't know what it's like to feel holy until you know what it's like to feel really f****ng evil. And you can't be birthed again until you've died."
----Kelly Cutrone (Can't believe I am quoting her ...but I think it was well said ..aside from all the curse words)....
And last lastly.....
"Happiness is not the absence of problems, it's the ability to deal with them." ----Steven Maraboli
So, til the next time ...stay POSITIVE AND ENCOURAGED....keep on pushing forward....and I challenge you to encourage someone else...I love it ...it feels amazing..which makes me feel amazing....see...forgot about my PROBLEMS by focusing (positively) on others.....luv it ;-Dng again....(still happy regardless of what is going on around me)
By:
thecheatedon
Age:
36-40
,
Female
