I Agree Women Do Not Know What They Want
After 40 Years Of Feminism Women Can't Admit What They Want
By:
Southpaugh
Written on April 19th, 2012
When I was growing up, basically all young men and men said the same thing; ‘women don’t know what they want’. There was no derision to this statement and often it was something that wise women admitted to.
Now, this statement is considered ‘sexist’ and everyone is aghast when someone is honest enough to describe women this way. What was once an honest appraisal has become a protected lie, about which only women get to talk.
Particularly interesting is the idea of ‘rape’. I can remember a dear school chum saying that girls didn’t mind the idea of rape; it just had to be the ‘right’ guy. We were discussing hormonal teen girls at the time and it made sense, from the way they often behaved, that they fantasized about the big ‘stud’ just ‘taking them’. One the other hand, we guys had our own moral code—imagine that—and knew that this was a fantasy best left where it started, in the imagination especially when you got a peek at naked girls as red blooded boys tended to do back then. Since then, I have been saying that you can’t get women to agree on anything—even the definition of rape.
Around 1980, there was a series of French movies that told stories of women being abducted and forced to live as sex slaves. Frequently, they were whipped if they had ideas of rebellion, or just to remind them of their place. The Story of O was particularly well done, and I can remember sitting in a movie theatre full of young men and women who enjoyed the story. The guys watching this movie were hardly rapists, but the fantasy of sexual control and dominance was alive and well—and welcome!
Feminism came to the fore and began to make women feel ‘used’ by men anytime there might be a question of their sexual needs not being met. Slowly, women lost the natural desire to be overwhelmed by sex, to be ravished, yes to be enslaved. In the 90s, everything became about pleasing her and of course since she didn’t know what she wanted, this became an impossible task for men—it is far worse in 2012.
Another thing that US women lost in the last 20 years is a natural understanding of how to keep a man around. Now, feminism preaches that, ‘it’s his responsibility to meet women’s needs’—even if he has no idea what this means—‘and if he doesn’t then he’s a typical bastard of a man’. Men—especially today’s p*ssified males—cower at the very thought of ‘not pleasing her’. Further, marriage is a minefield of women’s displeasures about virtually anything. Women have totally lost the art of being coy and seductive, of pushing him away in order to make sure he continues to come back. Now it is her LEGAL right to have him serve her needs, and woe to the man who doesn’t measure up. Being in a relationship now has all the appeal of having a horrible job, which men hate but feel they have an obligation to continue. Marriage as a true partnership is indeed dead.
Sometime in the 90s I began to predict that relationships were headed toward the rubbish heap because women were widely supported by feminism to viciously attack men for the slightest unhappiness on her part. As time went by and men withdrew from the scene, I saw women getting more and more frustrated—and the interesting thing was, they had no clue why. I saw more and more women, even well educated and professional women, starting to act like spoiled teenage *******—something which has now escalated into a huge problem among American teen girls.
Another interesting thing was the plethora of books that came out to try and explain the sources of these frustrations—all assiduously avoiding the pink dinosaur in the room. Recently, a 30-year longitudinal survey study, done by the Wharton School of Business, announced findings that women reported significantly less happiness now as compared to the 1970s. Feminists immediately concluded that: a) there is still so much progress to make; and b) while women do have many more choices now than then, these new choices all ‘suck’. Talk about women not knowing what they want; never thankful, never appreciative, and never ever happy.
Now, here in 2012 women sit around and whine they can’t ‘find good men’. It doesn’t seem to occur to this brain trust that 30 years of feminist-driven vilification of men and boys in schools, at work, and in marriages has transformed men into little boys who are afraid to step up and be natural males. And, like any abusive situation, women’s active or passive participation in male bashing has led to men becoming cowards, who are—not ironically—despised for their weakness, which of course leads to more abuse. I have seen this in marriage after marriage, women who barely tolerate their husbands, and husbands who are constantly at a loss about how to please ‘her’--eventually becoming little more than a ***** bank and a walking ATM.
I’ve been saying for the last 10 years that women are dying to have men just put their foot down and start leading—especially in relationships and more especially in the bedroom.
Until I read the EP post on a recent novel that depicts a women who is seduced into a life of sexual slavery—which is very popular among women, even feminists—I had little more than my memories and a gut instinct of just how much women—still—not only don’t seem to know what they want, but also the degree to which men’s and women’s fantasies—still—match.
It seems the feminist dream of women essentially marrying other women who have a convenient penis, may not be working out. Thank God.
Now, this statement is considered ‘sexist’ and everyone is aghast when someone is honest enough to describe women this way. What was once an honest appraisal has become a protected lie, about which only women get to talk.
Particularly interesting is the idea of ‘rape’. I can remember a dear school chum saying that girls didn’t mind the idea of rape; it just had to be the ‘right’ guy. We were discussing hormonal teen girls at the time and it made sense, from the way they often behaved, that they fantasized about the big ‘stud’ just ‘taking them’. One the other hand, we guys had our own moral code—imagine that—and knew that this was a fantasy best left where it started, in the imagination especially when you got a peek at naked girls as red blooded boys tended to do back then. Since then, I have been saying that you can’t get women to agree on anything—even the definition of rape.
Around 1980, there was a series of French movies that told stories of women being abducted and forced to live as sex slaves. Frequently, they were whipped if they had ideas of rebellion, or just to remind them of their place. The Story of O was particularly well done, and I can remember sitting in a movie theatre full of young men and women who enjoyed the story. The guys watching this movie were hardly rapists, but the fantasy of sexual control and dominance was alive and well—and welcome!
Feminism came to the fore and began to make women feel ‘used’ by men anytime there might be a question of their sexual needs not being met. Slowly, women lost the natural desire to be overwhelmed by sex, to be ravished, yes to be enslaved. In the 90s, everything became about pleasing her and of course since she didn’t know what she wanted, this became an impossible task for men—it is far worse in 2012.
Another thing that US women lost in the last 20 years is a natural understanding of how to keep a man around. Now, feminism preaches that, ‘it’s his responsibility to meet women’s needs’—even if he has no idea what this means—‘and if he doesn’t then he’s a typical bastard of a man’. Men—especially today’s p*ssified males—cower at the very thought of ‘not pleasing her’. Further, marriage is a minefield of women’s displeasures about virtually anything. Women have totally lost the art of being coy and seductive, of pushing him away in order to make sure he continues to come back. Now it is her LEGAL right to have him serve her needs, and woe to the man who doesn’t measure up. Being in a relationship now has all the appeal of having a horrible job, which men hate but feel they have an obligation to continue. Marriage as a true partnership is indeed dead.
Sometime in the 90s I began to predict that relationships were headed toward the rubbish heap because women were widely supported by feminism to viciously attack men for the slightest unhappiness on her part. As time went by and men withdrew from the scene, I saw women getting more and more frustrated—and the interesting thing was, they had no clue why. I saw more and more women, even well educated and professional women, starting to act like spoiled teenage *******—something which has now escalated into a huge problem among American teen girls.
Another interesting thing was the plethora of books that came out to try and explain the sources of these frustrations—all assiduously avoiding the pink dinosaur in the room. Recently, a 30-year longitudinal survey study, done by the Wharton School of Business, announced findings that women reported significantly less happiness now as compared to the 1970s. Feminists immediately concluded that: a) there is still so much progress to make; and b) while women do have many more choices now than then, these new choices all ‘suck’. Talk about women not knowing what they want; never thankful, never appreciative, and never ever happy.
Now, here in 2012 women sit around and whine they can’t ‘find good men’. It doesn’t seem to occur to this brain trust that 30 years of feminist-driven vilification of men and boys in schools, at work, and in marriages has transformed men into little boys who are afraid to step up and be natural males. And, like any abusive situation, women’s active or passive participation in male bashing has led to men becoming cowards, who are—not ironically—despised for their weakness, which of course leads to more abuse. I have seen this in marriage after marriage, women who barely tolerate their husbands, and husbands who are constantly at a loss about how to please ‘her’--eventually becoming little more than a ***** bank and a walking ATM.
I’ve been saying for the last 10 years that women are dying to have men just put their foot down and start leading—especially in relationships and more especially in the bedroom.
Until I read the EP post on a recent novel that depicts a women who is seduced into a life of sexual slavery—which is very popular among women, even feminists—I had little more than my memories and a gut instinct of just how much women—still—not only don’t seem to know what they want, but also the degree to which men’s and women’s fantasies—still—match.
It seems the feminist dream of women essentially marrying other women who have a convenient penis, may not be working out. Thank God.
By:
Southpaugh
Age:
18-21
