Not An Option

I hate that I ever allowed myself to be hurt, I will never again allow myself to be someones option. I want someone who makes me one of thier priorities, who loves me with everything in them as I do them. I am a very loving faithful person and I am looking for the same in whom ever I choose to share my life with.
I want someone who wants to be with me as much as I do them, someone willing to put forth their all and expect the same in return. I want someone who loves the good and bad in me, as we all have it.

I was once told life is not all about me and I have never been one to think or try and make it all about me but the above is not an option, its a requirment so if that makes me all about me so be it.
specks77 specks77
36-40, F
2 Responses Nov 22, 2012

To put ourselves in a position to be hurt is so silly, but even knowing that it a risk, we still go ahead. I guess it is when our heart takes over our mind.

I second 1goodguy's opinion. When there is a failure in a relationship both parties and neither are to blame - it takes both to make it work.

Having failed in my marriage - I have been lucky enough to find the most wonderful lady and the great thing about our relation ship is that we don't have to MAKE it work - it just works all by itself. I am truly a very lucky man.