I Need to Stop Worrying, People Like Me.

i have fans on EP even after only sharing a few stories. People seem to like me based on a general impression I give them. They don't pick-out certain things that made them want to click the "favourite" button, when I ask them. They say that they got a general impression that they liked.

This differs greatly from my peception. I think I come-across as a ____. I expect to annoy , creep-out and scare-off anyone who reads my stories, ..but I get new friends anyway......so it just goes to show thati can''t trust my perception.

I need to see myself more as others see me. ..and stop identifying myself as a villain.

my friends have told me this and I know that it is true. It is the only way forward.

demonizd demonizd
31-35, M
4 Responses Feb 20, 2009

i liked you from the 1st milli-second i came across you. that's why i "stalked" you !!! sometime, don't ask me when, you will start believing lots of people do. attractions aren't definable and are so individual and for f's sake i can't explain this here properly.<br />
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breathe<br />
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You will NEVER see how others see you. You can only learn to accept they appreciate you and want to spend time with you. It comes. eventually.

Thanks! :)

AND, I am the same. I work constantly about what other people think. I wear my heart on my sleeve and its hard not to in this world

I don't always feel good about myself either. And, its nice to come on here and share something and get a good response or attention for it.<br />
Makes you feel good as a person!<br />
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You aren't a freak or weird.<br />
You are a human being