Stalker Boyfriend

I dated a guy who was obsessed with and stalking his ex-girlfriend.  He was constantly distracted and hardly appreciated me, sometimes even unfavorably comparing me to her.  When I finally gave him an ultimatum, stalking her or being my friend, he chose to continue stalking her...  Obviously, I shouldn't have gotten involved in the first place, but my self-esteem has suffered from him  choosing to worship someone from afar rather than see what's right in front of them.
dancingindifference dancingindifference
26-30, F
3 Responses Nov 28, 2010

Wow, what a jerk! You're better off without a stalker like him.

I wish we could choose who we fall in love with.<br />
I hope your wounds from this relationship have healed by now. <br />
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And congratulations for ditching the jerk, well done!

Men are idiots. Don't let it get to you, men will choose, drugs, sports, TV, and cars over women most of the time. He clearly has a mental problem and it's probably good that he left you. Now you can probably find a man who'll appreciate you.