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No men posting.

So what is this - a girl thing?

Guess so.

Recovering from my last unrequited love guy. Feel like a joke. He is (or was he ever) a friend. Played me good. He spent years pining over me while I was in a relationship. I broke it off after 10 years. Gave him the green light. He broke my heart by faking to be as interested as before, but soon met a girl he admires and is with her now. Wants to marry her.

She is coldblooded manipulator, but that's what he likes about her. Guess men are cold manipulative seducers, so they get attracted to women who beat them at their own game.

I've seen it so many times in my life. The less attention I give them, the crazier they get about me, but as soon as I show feelings are returnerd and real, it looses the appeal for them. They like the chase.

So, girls, why is it that no man posted here? Is it that they are not socially conditioned to be ppl pleasers as we are or are they just born with bigger egos.

No matter how they look, they are always more confidant than us.

We should learn from them and stop trying to please anyone but ourselves.

Now, let me just implement that into real life. ;)

And stop obsessing about this one.

God, I wish I could rip my heart out and put it back in when it's over him.
Godess4Fun Godess4Fun 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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Godess, It most certainly is not only women, but because women are more emotionally available than men, It happens more often to women than to men. I am an emotional man, and have been hung up over and hurt by unavailable women before. Hell, I'm hung up over one right now. Such is life, I don't know if I'll ever learn. When you get right down to it, we all just want to be loved.

Well this is very interesting. I too have been played, and just recently. Men and women are really not that much different. There are good men/women as well as bad. Everyone has a heart, some are stone though. I'm a man that wears my heart on my sleeve. Guess I still have a lot to learn.

Why its all woman?

... majority of men don't like to talk about feelings, I guess. And as for the whole confidence issue, I think it has something to do with the condition of 'reproduction'. Especially for men who have a 'baby face'. God, I love those. But they're very arrogant as they know that they won't get old any time soon, so the field is a joke to them.

Irregardless, ... I understand a few people on here and what they are going through. I can't say all, but I know only because I went through some experiences myself.

At the end of the day what counts is your very own thinking and what you want to do with your life. Your individuality---express it and find it. And once you do, fight the everlasting battle to prove it to yourself and others.

---- LOST 888