I Try Not To Bother Anyone

I do feel like I bother others and it causes me to spend alot of time by myself. I do ask others to be honest and tell me if I bother them only few will have guts to tell me while the others talk bad behind my back. Some people just don't know how to be honest or feel like it hurts my feelings. Please just tell me I am a grown woman I can take it. If I bother you tell me cause that is the last thing I want to do to any one.
Someonecaresforu Someonecaresforu
51-55, F
6 Responses Apr 15, 2011

I try not to bother people is a famose excuse not to take action. Basically you are procrastinating and your brain find excusess why not to talk to people. You must push yourself out of comfort zone and EXPECT that people want to talk to you. Asume that reality.

I have used the same excuse. I am sure that there are people in your life that you can talk to them easily and without any feeling of ( i don't want to bother you). Well you asume that they want to talk to you at any time.

Just start talking even if you have that feeling with practice it will disapear. Sorry for my caligraphy but i am just consernd with the message.

I think we can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path......:)

i too will be honest with you and am here for you anytime you like and will be happy if you want to be friends but will leave that up to you

I will tell you also but I don't think it will ever happen.

You got yourself a deal pal.

You can bother me anything you like and I will be honest with you if you start to cramp my style.