Having a little crush is really essential to my life. Because it lightens everything up. When I meet them they only have to smile or look at me really and I'm totally happy. I enjoy looking at people I find attractive and just taking in the way they *are*. I can remember very few times in my life when I wasn't crushing on at least one person and during those times I didn't really have any motivation in life. So crushing makes life worth loving for me.