Am I Weird? Or A Cheater?

well I consider my self to be weird because I actually have a BOYFRIEND! but I'm pansexual, so I have weird needs for both genders. And I know I can't do anything because I live in a small place, plus I really do love him with all my heart. And I have a crush on a guy who is 2 years younger than me... ugh he's so.... AMAZING. and it's no help that my boyfriend dosn't treat me well.... we have problems like every other couple but... he won't let me talk to my friends!? So I bottle it up and he always wonders why I'm sad. I can't bottle things up forever. So I resort to "flirting". and even though I don't flirt around my boyfriend he thinks I'm flirting when I'm actually just TALKING to my friends.... is he crazy or is it me?
stufslaughter stufslaughter
1 Response May 19, 2012

If your bf thinks you are flirting, then you probably are. My bf always denied flirting until recently. Id tell him that you have to be very careful because you are a nice guy, but when a women has had a douchebag for a bf, any man that is trying to make her feel better will look mighty good to her and shell catch feelings real fast even though you think you are just being nice. You can be nice without the flirting, dont lick your lips or flip the hair. Silly things like that are taken as flirting by men. Just think about it.