15 And Pregnant

so as many people have heard of the show 16 and pregnant and alot of people think that those girls are bad for having babies at a young age. Well thats what my friends and family think about me. i'm 15 and pregnant. All the kids in my school hall looks at me funny and my parents disown me. But unlike alot of boys my boyfriend is by my side all the time to help me through it all. i feel so down all the time .like i have no way out of this mess. but i know that its my mistake and i have to bare the consiquences. Well i dont really know what to say except that if i could do it all over i would do it differently!!!!!

malabuesweetie malabuesweetie
18-21, F
5 Responses Mar 16, 2010

If its planned dontt feel sad. I'm 15 and pregnant maybe by a man I wanna marry and will in mexico so yah this generation is fuked up but its our body , our choice and if it makes us happy ullwel to the haterss

Dont be Down... Yu gotta baby, thats a miracle <3 Even if everything in yur life feels Bad, Its not, Yur gonna be a mommmy, an thats like the Best feelin in the world [: Just cause yur 15 doesnt mean anything, People make mistakes, Yu just gotta live with them, Thats alll, <br />
If yur parents disown yu, Than Dont care , Move out with yur boyfriend, theyll come along,, thats what ima try an Do . If yu need to talk to anybody yu can just inbox me , cuz i know how yu feeeel .

Please don't feel bad. Just because having a baby as young as you are is frowned upon by most, it's not a mistake. Everything happens for a reason so yes there is a reason that you're going to give birth to a baby. I know what you're dealing with is a lot, but don't feel bad. Bump all of those judgemental people. The people at school don't matter. You're friends don't matter because if they were REAL friends they would've stayed to comfort you and help you as much as they can since you're in need. I know having your parents disown you is hard, but it's their faults that they're not going to be around for you and your baby. You and that guy have created a beautiful life, and your kid won't miss out, your parents are just going to miss out on the blessing that this baby's gonna bring. You stay strong and keep your head up so that you can be the best mom that you can possibly be for this baby. It's a reason that you got pregnant with the kid. Your child is going to make a HUGE difference in someone's life. Also, your boyfriend is a good kid for staying strong for you. I hope things work out. Don't feel depressed about anything. Stay positive and smile for yourself and your baby. I wish you all the very best with everything. Good Day :) <br />
P.s(I know how you feel because I might be pregnant and I'm 15. My dad already told me he would leave us if I got pregnant. I understand you kinda. Hope I helped <3 )

Society... is at fault!!!<br />
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YOU are a MINOR!<br />
A C_H_I_L_D!!!<br />
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Males DO NOT "think" LIKE A FEMALE and everyone knows it!!!<br />
AND where is THE RESPONSIBILITY of "him" IN ALL WALKS of LIFE in the USA to WOMEN?<br />
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How many males BADGER the "MOTHER"<br />
who all of a sudden<br />
BECAUSE "SHE" is PREGNANT... WHY though "SHE" was "PLENTY GOOD ENOUGH" for him to abuse and use as that "PIECE OF ^$$"...<br />
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NOW that HE WILL BE PAYING THAT CHILD SUPPORT MONEY OUT...<br />
___why "SHE" is suddenly "THE UNFIT MOTHER" and DUE TO BE VICTIMIZED by that SLIME!!!<br />
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and TOO often SOCIETY does NOT go after this SCUM male for that CRIME alone!<br />
ALONE!!! <br />
Which is HEINOUS in and of itself!!!<br />
Society ALSO does ALLOW the SCUM male's parent(s) and or "boys" to DURESS HER LIFE!!!<br />
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AND THEY SHOULD ALL BE IN A PRISON FOR IT!!!<br />
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ALL OF THEM!<br />
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REAL Men are NOT LIKE THAT Hon.<br />
ARE NOT... LIKE THAT AT ALL!!!<br />
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Gay GUYS... CELIBANT fellas... and some that TRULY WANT a RELATIONSHIP with a WOMAN,<br />
A WOMAN... not THE TYPE CHASING AFTER a CHILD... not THOSE SLIME CHASING a kid under 18!!! TO VICTIMIZE!!!<br />
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SOCIETY... is at fault HERE!!!<br />
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AND the fellas... WHERE IS THE ENFORCED LAW<br />
of his DEBT to HER and that CHILD(ren)???<br />
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THE USA entitles THESE SLIME males TO HIDE OUT... TO NOT PAY THEIR DEBTS<br />
and or TO HARASS AND TO DURESS the MOTHERS LIFE! AND HER HEALTH!<br />
for now... and for yesterdays!!! TO THE SHAME OF THE USA!!!<br />
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AND TAX PAYING CITIZENS pay the DEBT for the CRIMES of hetero males<br />
in their DEAD BEAT WILFULL existence to SLIME on WOMEN on FEMALE LIVES!!!<br />
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WHEN THOSE guys SHOULD be LOCKED AWAY until they CATCH UP their LATE FEES!<br />
LOCKED AWAY IN A PRISON SYSTEM that DOES NOT LET 'em OUT until it is all CAUGHT UP!!!<br />
AND BECAUSE he DECIDED NOT TO PAY... HE STAYS IN LONGER TO CATCH AHEAD to HER!!!<br />
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REASONABLE aspects of DUTIES!!!<br />
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RESPONSIBILITY!<br />
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FEMALES HUNTED as PREY for SEXUAL EXPLOITATION<br />
such as YOUNG TEENS... forced into PREGNANCY by CORRUPTED SOCIETY...<br />
!<br />
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And it is also done against FEMALES of MUCH YOUNGER AGES!!!<br />
and OLDER AGES AS WELL!!!<br />
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AND RAPE... it is A CRIME MOST COMMONLY AGAINST FEMALE LIVES!!!<br />
DATE RAPE is a "cuted up" TERM for A HEINOUS CRIME!!!<br />
ALL RAPE IS TERRORISM action!<br />
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You are a CHILD.<br />
YOUR BODY IS TOO YOUNG for a pregnancy... too young!!!<br />
YOU ARE A VICTIM HERE!!!<br />
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What to do... is DISCERN WHAT IS HEALTHY FOR YOU!<br />
Y<br />
O <br />
U<br />
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Take CARE to STUDY about PREDATORS among the hetero male SOCIETY!<br />
They are THE PRIMARY RAPISTS and VICTIMIZERS of CITIZENS ACROSS THE USA!!!<br />
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Try to STAY CLEAR of them!!!<br />
Especially with YOU now SO YOUNG a mother... the SLIME will try to TARGET YOU more so!<br />
and SHAMELY in USA too little is done, as you well already KNOW to protect FEMALES!!!<br />
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THE LAWS WILL ARRIVE WITH 100% = WOMEN!<br />
WITH NO TOLERANCE OF VICTIMIZING ANY FEMALE LIFE!!!<br />
soon.<br />
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"mistake"?<br />
NOPE... YOU ARE A VICITM... and in the USA it too often INSTIGATES accusatory FRAMING of FEMALE VICTIMS as if THEY ARE "at fault"!!! KNOW it... and PAY ATTENTION TO IT!!!<br />
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Have a GOOD DAY!<br />
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Btw I DO BELIEVE THAT FUNGIRLMMM will try to "BE THERE" for you somewhat....<br />
THOUGH you NEED to Develop SELF AWARENESS.<br />
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Try studying ONLINE about RELATIONSHIPS<br />
FRIENDSHIPS<br />
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WHO IS HEALTHY<br />
WHAT A HEALTHY PERSON EXHIBITS IN MANNERISMS IN ACTIONS<br />
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REAL Men HON... they LABOR FOR 100% = WOMEN!<br />
AND LABOR for such WORKS AS ENDING RAPE ENTIRELY!<br />
Don't put up with any guy that CONTENDS RAPE must exist!!!<br />
Or that WOMEN have to BE PUTTING UP WITH BEING VICTIMIZED!<br />
Get away from those TYPES of SLIME!!!<br />
STAY CLEAR OF THEM...<br />
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Learn about DIET.<br />
READ... AND READ more and LEARN about ETHICS and GOOD HEALTH.<br />
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Have a good day!<br />
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YOU CAN COME THROUGH THIS IMPROVED AND HAPPY... BELIEVE IT.<br />
!

I don't think that you are bad, and maybe you could have used better judgment in getting pregnant at your age but there is nothing you can do now to change that. It sounds like you realize this already and are preparing yourself for the future. I am glad you have your boyfriend to talk to and to help support you. If you need someone to listen that won't judge you I am around here for you.