Just Want People To Appreciate Me As I Am

For a while now I've felt the tides are turning within me.  I think I'm sexy, I like what I see looking back from the mirror - so does my husband!  So why, when I go out in public am I made to feel like a freak?  I feel hotter and sexier than a lot of busy women half my size do - I have the sex drive of your average eveready bunny (ie: I can keep going and going and going...).  Most men would give their left testicle for a woman who enjoys sex as much as I do! 
I'm tired of feeling undervalued so I'm joining up with as many of these sites as I can - I'm going to celebrate my beauty and enjoy it instead of wishing to be something I'm not and feeling inferior!  And I encourage others to do so too.
Instead of trying to change everything about myself, I'm going to embrace it!  THis is me!  I am what I am! Like it or not - whatever!
SO I say to you world - I think I'm sexy!  And I want to share my sexiness with you and appreciate the sexiness of others just like me, I want to be an object of desire for men who appreciate my type of body, I want to feel good about who I am and to love myself as I am. I want what skinny women want but is denied to me through society's shallowness. I want to be sexually liberated.
After all, attractiveness is relative and sexy is a state of mind!
Flirt, live, love yourself and be sexy!  I plan to.

BBWKiwimouse BBWKiwimouse
36-40, F
11 Responses Jul 10, 2010

You got to love yourself what ever you look like. I am over weight and got disfiguring scars on my body. I may not be the pretty boy of old but I am me. I have lots of girlfriends all shapes and races.Big or small they are all great people, sexy and fun to be with. I was on steroids because of rheumatoid arthritis and this made me balloon up to 19 stone in 8 weeks. But as I started to feel better and stronger I noticed that some of my girlfriends wanted more sex than before. I asked because I thought that they may have been feeling sorry for me or pity. One told me she found it sexy and like how I slammed her and the weight making her feel trapped and dominated. The others had similar thoughts but a bit explicit for here. You just be you and love your life, and love those people in it. You only get one and it's to short so never be unhappy xx

Good on you, chubby women look so much better then skinny ones.

Friendship please?

I love big girls,i think they are beautiful.I hope i can meet one

Being a natural BIG GIRL is NO BIG issue....I am a BIG ONE too but you have to be BIG in the right places and where one will love what they see. my secret to keep the bulge down is CUT OUT SALT and SUGAR and you will see a great difference in a short period.....

Hey BBWs ROCK !!!! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You ARE a HOT , Sexy girl and the world is lucky to have you , So Go for it.<br />
Love n Hugs

Minimouse71 you have a great attitude. Go on girl just be your sexy self and let the world enjoy you as you are. I enjoyed reading your story. I am a big lover of positive attitude and self esteem so rock on girl. Just keep bein adorable you and bon apetit! xox

You go girl!!!! The truth will set you free! And you apparently know the truth!

From now on that's exactly what I'm going to tell myself coultitbe - that they're checking me out! And I'll give them back my best "WTF are you looking at cos you ain't gettin' none!" stare, Troubleshooter. Hey, thanks for the positive comments it's really uplifting.

Excellent attitude. Society is always behind the curve (pun intended) in these matters. Loving yourself is most important, and you've embraced that. Now you just need to find more people who think like you do and make them your peer group.

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