I am currently on a mission to better understand what it is about MYSELF that attracts narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths (or people of the lie as I like to call them) to ME. Once I can recognize it and understand it, it is my hope that I am able to extinguish the blazing flame that seems to scream, "Please hurt me." If I can completely eradicate these qualities within myself, then maybe I will be able to see these individuals for who they are before I give them the opportunity to reel me in. I want to take responsibility for my OWN behavior. They are just doing what they do. Not that I condone it, but I am the one who allows the scenario to keep repeating. It begins and ends with me. Has anyone else had any luck in ending their victim mentality? I am so done with it.
blackcat711 blackcat711
46-50, F
1 Response Aug 17, 2014

Maybe you are just to kind hearted and trusting. Sometimes we have to ask more questions and be a little more of a hard *** before letting others into our lives.

Agreed. Thank you.