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Bicurious Married Man

I've been hit on by men before, but have never experienced being with a man. I've trolled message boards, and talked to guys; but all of them are "let's meet . . . RIGHT NOW" guys. On the one hand, I don't want to just randomly hook up with someone. Kinda risky. On the other hand, I don't want a "boyfriend." I am in love with my wife, but I really feel like I need to explore this. I enjoy reading the stories on EP, and hope to make some new friends and get some further insight. I'm hoping NOT to get a bunch of, "you're married, you dirty cheater" comments. Trust me, I'm not all that happy with the thought - on a lot of levels. On others, yeah - it's a dirty, forbidden, lusty thing to think about, which makes the idea that much hotter.
byecuriousguy byecuriousguy 36-40, M 38 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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I'm the same, married, never experienced, very cautions, not happy with the thought, but feel I need to do this.

I'm exactly in the same boat. I love my wife and everything about women but have the curiosity and excitement of sharing a ****. I do also fight with myself with cheating on my wife. How do you guys justify it? I'd love to chat with you offline too.

U need to find a man whos in the same position. This way you can both endulge in hot sweaty discreet sex. Im a married man with 3 kids. I love my wife but she cant **** me balls deep bareback and **** in my hole. For like 2 years I stayed silent and one day at work I was talking with another employee in the same situation. Because he also has a wife and kids and doesn't want to ruin his life we both shag each other discreetly. We only have each other and our wifes so dont catch any gay STDs. Once every month we book a hotel for 2-3 nights and **** till we **** in each other. Sooo HOT!! He's big **** rams me till the morning and then I abused his hole till the night ;) im soo glad I found him ryt under my nose. His **** is just so big. We love each other and our wifes. I never regret letting him entre my tight arse which only he invades!

I have a young sexy wife but still love the feel of a guy in my mouth. There is nothing as good as a BJ from another guy.

I agree

An ideal situation is to get to know a guy who is willing to do things you want to and be your friend as well, a guy you can trust who when it takes your fancy and you are both available at the time you both want to get together,
I am, at the moment getting to know a guy who says its his first time, but too timid to take the next step.
He will probably curse himself when he finally make to step that he didn't do it years before. I was lucky enough to be bi enough to start in my young 20s, when I was still married, by the way my marriage didn't break up through my sexual encounters.
My wife took off with her girl friend when she realised she was gay.
You might not understand me straight away, but in time you will except that I was right.

You've really tapped a nerve with this. Thanks for posting! I feel the same way as everyone else.

I know what you mean. I have mixed feelings but at the same time I want a man so bad!! I have never even came close to it though. I am married and have kids and love my wife. However I would love to be taken by a man. I would love it!! I do not think it will ever happen. Like you I don't want a " right now" or a boy friend.

Same here I know how you feel

I HAVE THE SAME FEELING, BUT I DO NOT HAW TO TAKE OUT.

I do have a happy married man, Only when he has a chance (working in my suburb) he drops in and I orally satisfy him. He doesn't have to recipucate. I just love his c**k, I am giving something his wife, cannot or will not do.
I get tested every three months, and he is the only one in my life.

i relate alot to what you wrote. thanks for sharing your story.

you sound a lot like me.

I am married a,d bi, but my wife doesn't know!! I would like my male lover to have sex with my wife while I watch and jerk off.
I mentioned a ********* with my wife while having sex and she seemed interested but she changed her mind. I shared naked pics of my wife with my amn lover and he loves them.
does anyone have a fantasy of how they would make love to my wife while I watch?? We prefer mature men 50-60.
if its juicy enough I will show my wife and maybe this will
move us forward.
thanks
guys

I am 51 and have just recently began to wonder what it would be like to play with another man. I think the ********* is the most comfortable way I could initiate such an encounter though.
I would very much like to see some pictures of your wife.
I would also very much like to make out while you watched. I would kiss and caress her knowing that you are getting as excited as I am making your wife. I would slip my hands up her blouse and undo her bra. Freeing her breasts so I could feel the warm soft mounds. I would gently caress them until I felt her nipples become erect between my fingers. My mouth would replace my fingers as I suckled your wife's breasts.
While my lips are sucking my ands would of course slide down between her thighs for a tempreture reading. when I feel her moistness My fingers would begin to massage her *****.
Once she became aroused enough I would bury my face between her thighs and let my tongue slide and probe her slit.
Thats when I would look over my shoulder and signal for you to join us. So she enjoy stimulating you orally while I gobbled her up.
We would have to change positions so that I could mount her from behind and fill her with my throbbing meat.
We could roll her to her back and use all four of our hands to play with her.
fingering her until she asks for more.
We could then take the opportunity to touch each other. stroking your **** while I fingered your wife. Mmmm.

So true! Same here is difficult to explain the feeling but you explained well.

Same here, thanks for sharing!

Same situation here. I get ya!

I understand completely in same situation .

It seems that there are a lot of men in this situation, myself included. I have sucked **** and loved it. Meet with someone when his time permits and mine, so its very rarely. Always looking for someone nearby.

I am in the same situation. I am married and love my wife, but I would like to try bi without him wanting to be my b/f or more. If I like it I want to have someone like me that just wants to meet up now and then for mutual fun.

It sounds like there are a lot of us guys here in the same situation. I'm married and I want to stay that way. It has nothing to do with how sexually satisfied I am in my marriage; it's just an experience that I want to have, and I do not want to get to the place where I regret not having had sex with a man. I am waiting for the right opportunity to do this in a safe way.

Me too same situation lets start by trading emails and maybe pics. Lets make each other hard and ***.

I want to try

guys,i am married and happy with my wife for 45 years,and i felt the same as you all do,but then 1 day i finally said to myself,you'll never know until you try and i did,and wow,it was awesome,especially when hwe shot a load of hot *** in my mouth,and i swallowed every drop,and i'm glad i took the plunge,should have done it years ago,go for it,then you'll understand,and wonder why it took so long to try

Had it when i was young and also want to try it again, happily married but want to feel that way again.

Me too love to chat about it see where it goes

Okay, so there are lots of other guys who feel the same way. i feel much better. i too, don't want a 'boyfriend', am not gay, and get turned on by Women. i have never looked at a guy and thought he was hot.
Why do i have these bi curios thoughts? Possibly because as i slave i think of a Mistress ordering me to suck a guys ****. What to do? Another reason is that i don't want to have regrets when i get too old to do anything. My third reason is that i think about sex all the time. i love being naked and being seen naked. Many men have seen me naked.
i have a fantasy and want to make it real, at least try it out. i would like to serve a couple, a male and female who are both dominant. i'll try anything once!!

I've been having these feelings a lot too. In the same situation. I don't even know where to start.

My wife brought me my first **** to suck, now have a couple suck buddies and one of them gets the wife once in a while too. Just go for it

Same boat as all you guys. Love to blow a man, in a committed lovely relationship.

Well I am commenting on this page not because I am a man who feels this way but I am the wife of a man who I beleive has felt this way and will not admit that he still does. We are trying to work this out in our marriage becasue he was causght sending out emails to 10 different men on craigslist ads but never went through with it. My question is why, if you are happily married...and with kids? Someone please help me understand this dilemma.

Do you or have you ever thought of being with a woman?

its not about you at all,nd he loves you,he just wants to see what it is like to suck a ****,nothing wrong with that,i was that way,and now i enjoy have a **** in my mouth,i love to feel it explode in my mouth and i do swallow all.just tell him to be careful,and hell,you may like it if he done it in front of you,think about it,its just sex,not love

I ama 52 year old man, married and have been thinking about being with a man for a while now.I stilled love women

I sooo identify with you guys....have had bi-curious feelings for years, though happily married. It just sounds so hot, and I have always felt that another guy would know exactly what a guy likes.

Oh, man I so feel this way, and have for a long time....I am happily married, but I think there are many others out there like me wh just won't admit it

Would luv to chat more in very similar situation.