I am a 24 year old woman, and I am getting married to the love of my life next weekend. I have dealt with the fact that I am bi-curious for a number of years, and the past couple months it has been weighing very heavily on me. My future-husband would never be okay with me experimenting with another female so I just know that I will never be able to know that this is like unless I were to hide it from him.

It's not that I want to have a romantic relationship with another woman, but I would like to have a great friendship and intimate relationship as well. I have a strong physical admiration for the female body.

I'm really just looking to talk to anyone in the same boat as me, or who has been at one point in time. Would really like to have some friends with a similar story.
mrsbrown509 mrsbrown509
26-30, F
3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

Wish I'd seen this before you got married. How is the the married life treating you?

am on the same boat. lately the urge to experiment with a woman is unbearable, i dont know why I feel thjs way. I am married, 28 years old, I have a good relationship and sex life with my husband, but the idea of being with a woman is just driving me nuts.

also, I would have to keep it from my husband. I could never tell him.

I feel like I am in a very similar situation as you, I'm 29, married to a male, but realizing recently that I am attracted to women...it's harder to ignore (which is what I have done for so many years). Let me know if you want to talk.

i am very bi-curious myself and have never acted on it. Id love to talk.