Big Girls Need Love Too

My boyfriend and I have been dating for more than a year now and this whole time I've been trying to ignore the fact that he's a lot thinner than me. Recently though, it's been bugging me a lot. He's always telling me how beautiful I am and he's never ever mentioned my weight or that I need to lose a few pounds but it's something I find to be a problem... at least for me anyway. I love him and he loves me and I don't know why this is bugging me so much. I worry about what people think when we're out in public and I wonder if my weight is the reason why I haven't met his family after all this time of being together. Am I simply being paranoid?? For the most part I am a very confident person but I can't help to think that one day he'll grow tired of me and leave me for a thinner and more "beautiful" girl. :(
voodoodollhorrorpop voodoodollhorrorpop
22-25, F
5 Responses Sep 10, 2012

I am one of those men called chubby chasers. I find you curvy ladies very sexy and beautiful. If your boyfriend has issues with your body, there are lots.of.men (moi) that find you irrisistable. Im on the thin side and ive had women tell me things.like you have said about odd.size.matching for.lack.of a.better term.
Remember,,, sexy is how you make the other person.feel. You are beautiful!

Thank you all for your warm and kind comments, they all made me smile. I now know that the most important thing, or really the only thing that matters is that we love each other and that he loves me just as I am, perfect misperfections and all. :)

Yes, that is the most beautiful love of all! ;)

Don't worry. There are plenty of men (like myself) that enjoy 'larger' women.

Don't worry about it if he hasn't said anything about your weight. Sounds like he loves you for who you are. Bring him his coffee in the morning with just a smile. He'll love it.

He loves you for you, and knows no skinny mini can compare to a curvy, soft, sweet lady. I'm sure u amaze him in and out of bed :)

Amen!