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Why Do We Make the Mistakes We Make???

By: keeaser
Written on August 23rd, 2007
It has been awhile since I've written something here. I think I have made the biggest mistake ever. a guy I was with for many many years we split up so to speak but we were only in seperate houses yet it did not take him a week before he was having sex with someone else. I  stayed away but I let him talk me into taking him back i do not understand why as women we sometime fall for the lie and the deceit. I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach that he is see someone again. I feel it how to I get this person out of my life and never look back ever. He never deserved me in the first place.He loves himself so much he only needs himself. I think in a way I have answer my own question.Love is suppose to be a wonderful thing why do some people make it so ugly sometime
By: keeaser
Age: 41-45 , Female
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  • Blogettina
    Blogettina

    We make mistakes because we are brave enough to take risks in order to enter into a relationship with another person. We need trust to do this and faith. When the trust is broken our faith in the person can suffer and the relationship is often a casualty. If you think he is with another you are right...he is. get your game on and remember you have worth without him. you are whole in your own being. I understand the unity that love brings and the peace that lies within the unity but this one doesn't sound like you have that experience. Get ready to possibly make a mistake but so what....you might not and the reward is great.

    Jul 10, 2012
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  • alltymelow
    alltymelow

    The first person you need to love is yourself. Be confident and true to your own beliefs. If you feel he's not trying hard enough to put in the same amount of energy into the relationship as you do, then cut the cord before you tie the knot and end up regretting the relationship. The problem with relationdships is they take daily nourishment from both and a commitment from both to take the time to reinforce the commitment. Only then will it grow into a bonding love between two who become one.

    Feb 27, 2011
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  • meganb73
    meganb73

    Its okay to be alone! ..... At least until you've found someone who is deserving of you. That sounds corny... but its TRUE! It is the most impowering feeling to know that YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE TO MAKE YOU WHOLE. You are obviously smarter than this guy. Don't let him have you. You don't need us all tell you that he doesn't deserve to treat you that way. Believe what you are feeling.

    Nov 12, 2010
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  • Nawega
    Nawega

    Follow your instinct ALWAYS. Have the strength to leave because he may just be blocking the next guy who is likely to be great. Trust me you never know the strength you have until you decide to leave then leave and start rebuilding your life again. You will discover yourself like never before. He will want you back and will beg......but remebmer say NO

    Jul 26, 2010
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  • SamOnHisSoapbox
    SamOnHisSoapbox

    Dont question ... your spot on .. you need love and trust .. the loving from your side is working fine .. the loving from his side is not what it should be .. but there is something there ... however there is no trust.



    I think your judgement is bang on the money.

    Jul 29, 2009
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  • keeaser
    keeaser

    EVERYTHING YOU ARE SAYING IS TRUE. OUR EMOTIONS ALWAYS GET THE BEST OF US. I QUESTION EVERYTHING I DO NOW. I TRUST NO ONE I THINK BEING ALONE IS THE BEST THING FOR ME. DATING ISN'T FOR ME I MAKE ALL THE WRONG DECISION...

    Aug 1, 2008
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  • KIK
    KIK

    life suppose to not be easy so we can learn from it if we are willing to do so. Sometimes our emotions/heart clouded our mind so we were preclude to see the right person. Or just simply rush to the relationship. If he moved so quick to another woman all your relationship was driven by sex from his part. Looks like it. So please let him go, forgot about him and move on. Don't rush or be desperate cause the right one comes unexpectedly and is easy to be scared out. Good luck and take it easy.

    P.S. his ex doesn't deserve you anyway LOL

    Jul 31, 2008
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