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I Love White Men!!! :)

I am a black & native american mixed bbw. Ive onyl dated 2 black guys in my life. The rest have been white men. I absolutely love white men. I really found myself becoming intrested in them in high school. Where I am from 90% are white, 5% mexican / asain, and 5 % blacks. In the 5% black were mostly my family members. I dont do ******! LOL! Anyways, that left me with other options. Ive always been attracted to them. Im not going to bash any black men, but white men really know how to treat a lady. Their openminded, and I love that. I am happy to say that I am married to a white man and he is in the United States Army! He made me an army wife. :) Im 5 months pregnant and we are getting very excited to share the world with our soon to be daughter. For any black women out there who are thinking about dating a white guy....I say go for it, and I hope you become as happy as I am. Remember....Diversity is beautiful!
Blackbarbie1987 Blackbarbie1987 26-30, F 62 Responses Jul 6, 2011

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iIm glad to read about black woman's experiences. not enough mixing of the races on EP. My first ***** was a black girl, just because she was there not because I had a thing for black girls. Any way diversity is interesting.

I am very happy for you. My late wifey was a Chocolate Georgia Peach herself, and yes she married a Soldier. unfortunately, she died from Sickle-Cell Anemia in August. She was my best friend and my first love.

Awe... I am sorry to hear that. I am also anemic, but it isn't sickle cell. Its a very painful sickness. Much love! Muah! :)

I understand the struggle more than some. If you need anything you have my support :)

Thank you for that! :)

You know what u want and have it..good for you. Congratulations on the baby.
Just curious what tribe...??


Here is my question... why the heck do black men and women act like there is only white ppl in the universe when it comes to dating and relationships? There are sooooooo many other races out there so why just limit yourself to white? The world is not just black and white. And honestly if ur going for someone just because of the color of their skin its kind of pathetic dont u think?

Let's talk and see where it takes us.

I'm sorry, sweetheart. I am Married.

My last girlfriend was black and she was fantastic in every way! I'm glad you're so happy and congratulations on your daughter. Add me if you're up to it. Best wishes

Why can't I be her (someone on TAGGED from NYC originally and now in Upstate NY) boo? :'( I probably showed how sweet I am but at the same time, she's not talking with me right now! :'(

She stopped talking to you? Why? Your such a sweet guy! :)

Aww thank you! :) I don't know! :( Maybe she felt I was doing too much on her profiles for someone "that doesn't know her" :'(.. I am longing to be with her and if that never worked out, it would make me really sad, not only that, but on another note, I would be willing to be an extra husband for you to take care of you in addition to Anthony, if he was so overwhelmed with his daily tasks! :) <3

She doesn't deserve you, sweetheart! Her loss....LOL! An extra husband, huh? Mhmm....I've never thought of that and it could be fun. Just I don't play with people's emotions and I don't want to hurt you. Sharing loving feelings can be dishearting if your not the type of person who is ok with it. I have no doubt you would care for me, but how do you honestly feel about it?

Well I know that I've suffered quite a bit myself so I am willing to take the risks! ;) I appreciate your caring and I find that truly beautiful in a person! :) <3

I hate that you have had to suffer. You deserve the same kindness and love you have shown me.

Thank you so much! :) <3 And I feel so awful for the bad things you went through in life and wish I could have been there to save you and rescue you from it all! :) <3

What she doesn't understand is that I have autism and that makes me talk to people or strangers more than society deems "normal"..But that's nothing I can totally help... I am genuinely a very affectionate guy and I feel so heartbroken that she would feel this way! :'( I'm just trying to get to know her! :)

Some people don't understand that. Maybe she is doing you a favor, because if she is that shallow then she doesn't deserve you! I have friends who have children with autism and I have a cousin as well who has it, so I am quite aware of what goes on. If she can't accept it then move on.....its her loss not yours!

Thanks Barbie! :) <3

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Great attitude from an attractive woman. Your stories are great and would like to be in your circle.

I just added you! :)

You Are A Attractive Lady Your Husband Is Lucky IWould Like To B Your Friend Will You Add me

I just added you! :)

How great to read this story. I always wondered why there was a taboo for black guys ******* white chicks(making better to do) and not one for black chicks and white guys.

Would you add me please?

I love dark skinned females, beautiful

Beauty has no color, I saw your picture and just thought "hot lady"

I am white man, went out on a date with a black girl and loved it! Especially at the end of the date when I dropped her off, lol got a little steamy in the car needless to say, lol. We never shared intimacy, but I have for the longest time wanted to share in the desires of intimacy and sex with a black woman. You are gorgeous!

glad you love white men, I think black women are so beautiful

That is awesome. Love for all people!

Just let me say, any of you beautiful black ladies that are interested in white males, be sure and look me up.

SidNTx on the Y

A huge thanks to you and your husband for your military service. I know even though you may not actively serve, the support a service members spouse gives is equally important. Thanks, again!!

I LOVE Ebony women just to bad I cant find one that even shows the slightest interest in me.

I LOVE Ebony women just to bad I cant find one that even shows the slightest interest in me.

A lovely story , alot of white guys i Know would love to date a black a Women ,but just shoot them selves down by thinking that they would have no chance.

They should at least try.

how does your husband feel about black people in general or have you ever had that discussion ?

No, I havent really had this discussion with him, because the woman that raised him was a black woman including he has uncles and aunts on her side of the family that had a part in raising him. Why would I ask him that when I already know. Color does not matter.

His father and his birth mother divorced when he was about 4 yrs old. His father got custody of him and remarried a few years later to a black woman. So, he was raised by a black woman and have black members in his family and that was before he met me.

This is such a refreshing perspective to hear, for once!!! Thanks, and good luck with your family.

Im glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for the comment! :)

My pleasure!!! Too tired of reading about white women who just want the BBC. At least your reasons have DEPTH and aren't superficial!

I understand how you feel. Where Im from is mostly white girls with black men. Im different....I love white men! Yes, I am a lucky woman to have my husband. He means the world to me. :)

Well he is very luck to have you as well! So you are all lucky to have each other! xo

I couldnt agree more. Are you looking to date a black woman?

Well, I think my white wife may have something to say about that! ;-) lmao

Oh Im sorry. I didnt know you were married. LOL!

No problem! If it piques your interest, I am certainly not discriminatory!!!

Thats wonderful to know. :)

There is a black lady who invites us to her son's birthday party every year (he is a classmate of my son). I have fantasized about ******* her tbh..... her husband died suddenly several years back, she's way too young and pretty to be a widow.

Mmm...thats a hot fantasie! You should write a story about it or have you already done that?

No I haven't done that one. Her name is Joy. Maybe I'll call it Enjoying Joy. ;-)

Hahaha! I like it! GO for it! Please let me know when you write it and post it. Id love to read it! :)

Of course I will! xo

Cant wait! :D

Any new updates with Joy?

No! It hasn't happened yet! In fact, the last couple of years have kind of been a fizzle. I once texted her a link to my Ode to Joy story by "accident". Either she never saw it, or she saw it and decided to show less interest!

I'm sure she probably didn't see it. I can almost guarantee she would have said something.

I can only wish! Ahhhhhh

Keep wishing. It will eventually come true! :)

That would be so much fun!

Yes, it sure would.

You're sweet! Xo

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very nice hope every thing goes well for you nice to find a black lady that likes white males

like this, and unlike you, I have no problem bashing black men if the topic rose up lol. my hubby is black and boy was THAT a mistake. and the other black guy i was getting with my teenage years turned out to be a loser too. lol.

funny though cuz i think black women and white men look awesome together hehe

love the profile pic, soooo cute. such an adorable package.

Respect, nice story

We love you too

So glad you are happy!

Thank you! :)

It's great to learn that black woman are interested in white men because that's is exactly the kind of experience I desire! Although unfortunately there isn't a great load of ethnic diversity in my little patch of Ireland... Haha still, a guy can dream! :) day you will get lucky. You should move to the usa, sweetheart.

Yeah maybe your right.. And you know what, maybe I will. I has been considered! For other reasons too of course! :L But what a bonus!

If you do decide to move here and Im hoping you will. I would love to meet you sometime. :)

I'll remember that, and thanks very much, that's an offer that I could never refuse! And you know what, I'm glad that you were thinking along the same lines as me because meeting you would be great. :) Can't wait till I get to the US! ;)

Awe....we can have so much fun! Just keep in touch.! ;)

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id love 2 **** u :) and suck those sexy ****:)

Hey all-thought I may just stick my 2 cents worth n greet all you-especially the naturally exotic n enchantingly beautiful choco ebony women. Short of me finding a self help group to cure me of my powerful n haunting addiction to the women-I am stuck until I find one all for my own..have many as friends-and as dates...but still.... There is something magical about y'all. Cheers!

Thank you! :)