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Capricorn Man Changed Overnight

I met a Capricorn male about two months ago. I live in NC and he lives in GA. Im a Virgo woman. I was mesmerized by this young man. We started talking over phone, he invited me to GA to visit. For two months, I went there to visit him about 5 or 6 times, (every other week). We never talked about a relationship but I expressed to him during that time that I was going with the flow and I enjoyed his friendship. I expressed to him that it was something about him that I liked alot. He was so humble, kind and down to earth. A perfect match FOR ME! Everything was cool with us. For Christmas I sent him a small gift and on his BDAY I sent him a small gift. He was so appreciative of me and said I was so kind to him and no one has ever thought about him like I do. Everything was going so good, he would call/text everyday. He asked me once, have I ever considered moving to GA and maybe I should consider it. Everything was great! SUDDENLY, he just changed. The calls started coming in less, no communication. My next concern was, I wonder when he's going to invite me back, because we normally make arrangements for the next visit. He never did! So I decided to set up a visit, he said "ok, I'll get back with you". He never did and I figured that was going to be the case, I was just wondering. After all of this, I felt the need to just tell him I think he's changed and I cant go through this with him b/c my feeling are really involved and I dont understand why he changed like this! I emailed him and broke it off b/c I dont understand why he changed and I couldnt afford to keep visiting and he's not the same, just a waste of time. SO AFTER he received the letter, HE NEVER EVEN RESPONDED OR DISCUSSED IT WITH ME. He sent a few texts after the letter saying, Hi, how are you??, What are you doing?? etc??. BUT NEVER MENTIONED THE LETTER! I think this dude is crazy or either playing games. I stop calling as well b/c I dont play games. I've expressed to him through texts that he's wrong for ignoring my concerns and I never thought he would do this. If he isnt interested he could just tell me. So after that he texts me saying, " I FEEL SICK WHEN I WONDER WHERE WE WENT WRONG, IM SORRY IF IVE HURT YOU, I HAVE ISSUES RIGHT NOW". ??????????? Im confused!!! He want answer my calls or fully discuss anything so I've let it go. I dont understand this and what happened, Was I wrong for sending him that letter breaking it off?? I've read over and over that Capricorn men will ignore you, etc etc. Im not understanding but Im not going to waste time either!! SOMEONE THAT KNOWS CAPRICORN MEN, WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS!

I also have to add that he asked me during those two months to borrow $250 til a check cleared. He sells cars. I let him borrow the $$, I've never thought he had financial problems. He seems to be financially secure but after asking me to borrow that, I thought differently. After I broke it off with letter and he sent that text, I've still been very cordial with him. I send him a "hello" text about once a week. When I mention anything about this being over or I hate this ended and I will miss you, HE NEVER RESPONDS. If I say, Hi, just checking on you,, HE WILL RESPOND. So I asked him about the $$, paying me back. He told me he was broke right now. I said ok, I understand, well when you get in a better financial spot, just let me know and you can pay me back. So the other day, I saw on facebook where he posted that he spent $2000 that night at the ***** club. I WAS PISSED, so i texted him very angry saying you told me you were broke but you have $2000. SEND ME MY MONEY NOW!!!
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Wow I'm a cancer woman and despite having lost contact with my cap man for numerous years he is back and reeking havoc on my life. We dated in college and all signs led to love. In all honesty I kissed another guy and poof! My cap switched schools and we didn't speak for a long time. Now I'm in another relationship and he is back under the guise of being friends. All of the sexual chemistry is still there when we text but the hot and cold aspect of his cap personality is enough to get us both committed t an insane asylum! I know that I should not be texting him, but he does everything to draw me in including sending pics of us when we were together. As soon as I seem the slightest bit intrigued by his displays he runs ice cold as if I were the one seeking him out. ANY ADVICE?

I'm a Taurus woman and I have been dating this cap man for about 2 years now. We met through a dating site, he lives in UK and I used to live in UAE.. He travelled all the way to meet me , we went to India , I even went to UK twice but he always was confused and he left me alone every time after we met and broke up with me. After 7 months he came to US to meet me and tells me he just came to see how Iam doing .. After all that rude answers , rude and mean words he came back and cried and said he won't put me through all this again .. He apologised and went back and said he will fight for us .. We will work on our marriage ( reason why we break up all the time is his lack of commitment , confusions and his family , who are very orthodox and he doesn't want to hurt them and they are against love marriages ) .. We both always fight only on our marriage .. Rest all everything is good.. But I'm always scared to lose him again.. Now after 2 months he suddenly changed again and he initially asked me to give him space , now he says he doesn't feel like talking to me and doesn't feel it anymore, he feels our marriage won't work cos it's his family and church won't accept , he asks me to leave him for good, he is saying he is irritated to talk to me, he is shouting all the time at me( he never used to do that before) even though we broke up many times he never shouted at me. I asked him that why he has again changed and why did he even come back when he is again going to become like this , back to form. He says I don't know.. I cried so much , I asked him so many questions , numerous calls , but he always had no time for me and even if he answers I end up asking questions and we fight .. Finally today I said one thing that I love him and I will do whatever it takes to be in his life .. I will be his mistress .. He promised me that I can be his mistress and he will give me a baby but not his wife .. I feel so bad that he agreed for me to be like that instead of marrying me.. But I still want to wait on him.. May be I will remain his mistress forever .. He said me being his mistress is the only possibility of us being together.. Guys help me on this .. He is going to India soon.. His family are so orthodox and he is so coward that he is not even ready to at least ask them and tell them our story.. He just doesn't want to hurt his family.. But I'm ready to be the victim and give him my life for good .. That means no extended family , no marriage , no wedding ring or wedding gown .. And just seeing him on some vacation and secret calls .. I agreed to this.. When I asked him , why do you come back all the time , when I almost try to move on and he promised me today and said I won't ever come back again , please move on. Then I begged him to take back that promise and asked him to let me be his mistress. He said okay and I asked him to promise me he will let me be his mistress and never leave me.. He promised. I feel like I am a peice of ****. But will he realise what he is doing to me? And at least change in his life , if I stick to him ? He said he has to marry another woman for his family and I should be a secret. God help me.. How do i be now?? Guys
advice me please

OMG I feel for you! I know exactly how the Capricorn rollercoaster can throw you into situations you never imagined for yourself. I too have experienced this. My cap on the other hand seems to be dead set on me keep him as a secret affair despite knowing I'm in a long term relationship. I try to deny him but the chemistry is just magnetic. As soon as I start to reciprocate his feelings he runs cold like I'm the bad guy. The right advice is to walk away, but you and I both know how difficult that can be!Please reply with authenticity, support, and respect

OMG. I am a cancer woman 47, that was dating a cap man, 58 for about 7 months. Same thing- great at first then no time for me -only for his kids and job- month or two at a time I wouldn't see him. Finally said this is not working for me, I can't wait around for you, call me when you have time and we will see what happens. Have not heard from him for 5 weeks, since Dec. 3rd. Did not even wish me Merry Xmas... I was missing him until I read this, now I feel I made the right decision...still a bummer- he got in my head
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This is something I see women who get involved with us say very often. I say "us" because, I'm a Capricorn Guy myself. We tend to walk away from things like this all the time. But if he's not telling you why, then something is definitely bubbling underneath that aloof exterior of his. If he's not talking to you at all, then you need to take the initiative, and draw out whatever he's hiding, by any means. Don't just throw the towel on the ring. If he's been saying he's been having some problems, then he might as well be holding up a sign saying, "I'm hiding something underneath my Capricornian exterior! Please draw out whatever it is!"

Jokes aside, don't give up on him. We might seem aloof, but we have a lot of emotions running through us, and some of them we just can't tell to anyone. If he's telling you he's struggling, then he isn't ducking with you. If ANY capricorn tells you about a problem like this, then we must be REALLY hurting inside.

So don't give up. Just next time, when a Capricorn does this to you, then you need to confront them and do whatever it takes to lure out what they're hiding.

I hope this helped.

Hi I'm year late but I just recently was dating a Capricorn he just broke up wit me today he tells me it's not me it's him that he's having problems but wverytime he always break up wit me n then I always cry call in him n he saythat he can't really see hisself leaving me for real cause he's in love wit me so he always do this cause he say he's confuse but we will always get back ttogetherits like he switch every time n say that he don't kno what he wants n that I deserve better but I love him so much n I'm will in to work it out cause I kno he a good person he just got some bad ways but everyone do but today he told me that he can't keep Lying to me n hjsself that he want this when he don't but he say he still in love wit me but it a like he really gone this time. N I don't kno what to do its like it's easy to him to walk away from me I don't wanna let go but I don't wanna be stupid at the same time like what' shld I do ?

Girl just experienced dating a Capricorn man Im a Leo and let me tell you after talking to this man by phn 3 and 4 times a day for 5 months and him saying he fell in love with me and we are on the phn praying together and making plans for the future he even spoke of marriage and said I was the love of his life. He met me one time. He lied abt his age. He looked like he used to drink heavy which was a turn off! He was very arrogant self centered cheap and unappreciative. I rolled out the red carpet for him in Atlanta. 5 star hotel planned a lavish dinner and mini surprises for the weekend. This ninga came off the plane COMPLAINING! I sent him home on the next flight the next day! They r too weird and its all abt them! You can either get on their bus and be a spectator in the audience or leave it alone. They always working but blow money on things to keep up with status. They like to disappear and be to themselves and nothing in your life is important enough to come before his issues. They are cold and stubborn and only listen to their own intelligence. They shld date themselves! They ignore you and refuse to communicate if you want to address an issues. My first and last becuz a Capricorn really needs someone that has low self esteem and lets life revolve around him and only him. They dominate the dating websites bcuz they dont have a clue and think they are so damn amazing and its nothing wrong with them it must be everybody else. You know that old man that be at the laundrymat that u can tell used to be attractive but hes alone and cant remember how to wash clothes? Thats a Capricorn man ALONE! nobody is going to put up with that bullshit for long! If I ever encounter another one Im running in the other direction!!!

My capri man ws vry fond of me nd ws madly in love nw sdnly aftr valentines day he disapprd nd evn blocmed me frm whatsapp. Hw to find wats goin on in his mind. Plz hlp

This is NOT a romance; CALL the Po; take him to court, or have a guy from a gym pound on him til he pays up!

Hi there

I am a Capricorn female and engaged to a Capricorn man. His moon is in Libra and mine is also in Capricorn. That is the most complicated part of our relationship but furthermore I understand him exactly. We as Capricorns are VERY difficult people. For me I don't EVER tell anyone I love them unless I really do and when I really do I only say it about 3 times in 6 months! He on the other hand shows affection through talking to me and doing me random favors (rubbing my swollen feet after a long day- I am pregnant) and making me popcorn while I watch the Secret Circle. He is my best friend and when I go to bed and he slips in beside me he holds me until I wake up the next morning like I am his most valuable possession in the whole world. We like to make dinner together and like the same movies and series but to get back to the point I am making is this: If he sees a future with you he will tell you that and if after a while you did something to make him distrust you (we distrust easily for no apparent reason at all) he would think you through. If he then decides that you are not worth it, he will cut you off directly! I've done this with previous boyfriends who I then left confused and took pleasure out of them not knowing what went wrong. (I know- evil as can be) That is EXACTLY what he will do. Otherwise if you always stay the same never change never give him a chance to wonder about you. You will be treated like a queen. They are excellent fathers and they want to take care of you in every possible way. Just never forget even if your there most valuable possession, their job is more important because the job is what helps them to take care of you like they want to! xx

No. You are an idiot. Anyone who believes in astrology is an idiot.

And yet here you are on a page dedicated to Astrology.

Whose the idiot again, lol?

Hold on, I'll wait.....

You are the idiot

It's who's not whose!

Still arguing with yourself, I see?
I'll let you work that out.

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Could some Of You Guys Come Help Me With My Experience ???? It's On My Page And Is Very Similar To This . Please &' Thank You !

well, i too hate cap men...i dated one for almost a year..and what all i learned from exp is that they all are money minded, emotionless and ruthlessly ambitious ppl..stay away frm these men..and yes, no matter what u did for him..they vl nvr respond back...B***** A*******

man all the story some so similar I was with a guy for about 5 months I'm a cancer girl older he's 26 of a6 year relationship with a little girl but he moved on very independent was head over heels for me for the first two months we have the best connection physically but even more mentally he said he never known anyone like me he said all these nice things call text me and then he stopped he done this multiple times but this time he's blocked me from the cell phone that I gave him an old one I have and I haven't talked to me since for no apparent reason he broke my heart he does make me feel terrible he's really nothing and I have everything going for me but I still love him to death he was like my best friend I don't know how to move on

He's not your friend;he just needed a phone!

*cracks knuckles*Okay, confused ladies, strap on your seat-belts and put your big girl panties on.Now, you can keep dealing with this rigid individual,if you want to, but it's gonna end in heartbreak and it's going to hurt badly. They won't let you go, nor give you any kind of absolution or freewill to walk away from them. They will keep you in a perpetual state of confusion, just for their own amusement. It doesn't matter how much you love him, do for him, screw him,encourage him, give him space, it won't fukking matter. Once he has boxed you in with his sneaky domination, you are trapped in a four- quarters position like a strung up chicken over a burning flame. He is not going to save you from yourself . He is the bad guy. Your displeasure is his enjoyment. Now you might call me crazy and might say I am exaggerating, but you have a bigger responsibility to yourself, to step away from this person. Yeah, they come on strong, demand entry into your life, pulling all kinds of crazy antics and you might think it's endearing at first, but I am here to tell you all roads end somewhere, and with some of them, it's a dead end. Mines swept me off my feet. Hung on to my every word. Let me show him things he didn't understand and when the chase was over and I was irrevocably in love with him, he shifted gears on me like he was riding a Challenger doing about 120 mph on the slab(expressway), trying to avoid a wreck. Believe me, his hot/cold demeanor is doing you a favor. If he is not happy or on top in his own life, he could give a fukk less about yours. He's not there for you, he's there for himself. Trying to sap your power, to power his own life. And once he get what he needs, like a puff of smoke from a blunt, he's gone.Take care, ladies.If you are strong enough to deal like my mom was, they will eventually turn into great guys, ONLY if they truly love you. But old habits will die hard

I completely agree with everything. I have known this capricorn man in my life over 7 years and what started as a beautiful friendship over the years somehow led to more. The chemistry between us has always been undeniable. He was always a player dealing with many women without any sympathy or remorse. So eventually he started dating and went Into a few relationships. We kept each other informed and became great friends over the years. He would give me advice on men and I would be doing the same letting he in on what to get for the women he was dating at the time. So a few months back we started just casually meeting up and didn't label it as a date because we have known each other for so long. Our dates were fun, interesting and he would take me anywhere I wanted to go. Treated and pampered me, and really made me feel special. After several dates and constantly keeping in touch via text. He stopped speaking to me. Well it all started with an argument, and I told him do not swear or use abusive language I respect him and I expect the same on return and made it clear I will not be spoken to this way and bare in mind I have had an argument with him once before (when seeing him) and they are cold, brutal and just genuinely don't care about your feelings. So after that argument over text I waited for him to respond. After exactly a week he messages me and apologises for swearing. I was shocked but didn't want to get on his level ignoring him but neither did I want to reply straight away. So I waited till after midnight and told him that it took him that long. To my surprise the next morning he messages back saying he has been busy! Just busy. Not explaining his sudden disappearance. Not asking how I've been or what I've been upto. Almost as if it was forced out of him. Very obvious he didn't want to speak. So I let it be and did not reply. What would I have to say?! So it's been over 2 weeks now since that minimal communication. Valentines day passed. I did not get a text or anything from him. Pretty inconsiderate and harsh. He has been Indirectly trying to get my attention. Not sure if he wants me to speak to him? Or just wants to keep me there? Well anyway it doesn't make sense in my mind if he wants to still pursue what he started with me he would continue but he has left things and doesn't care to explain himself at all. I have gone through various thoughts about him disappearing and I have not come to any valid conclusions. But the only thing I can sum up is that he thinks it's okay to do what he's doing and will keep going as long as he wants. I don't approve but don't want to come on too strong, he likes being independent and do his own thing and I'm the same. So I'm still very confused. If I move on because I can easily convince myself this won't go anywhere and move on. But I care about him like no other guy. Then I'm worried what if he's under stress and trying to deal with family and his job right now. So not sure what direction I want to take. Also I don't particularly approve of his family they are dishonest, liars and will never tell anyone the truth because they are too proud and want to have things their own way. I care about him and not really keen on his family. I just think right now I need to sort things out but don't want to approach him and make that move. Any advice? Should I say something? Or am I doing the right thing by ignoring him and giving him the chance to come back and speak to me on his own terms and if he wants to speak to me?

He is still that player, doing what he'always did,with no remorse....has he sent flowers to apologize? Dump this psychopath!

I don't think he understands the concept of valentines day or any romantic gesture. I thought capricorn men were stable! But putting the astrology to the side he's had a few arguments with me and used horrifying language, I've stayed calm because I won't respond or argue over something like that and were mature adults. At least I thought he was. But it's been over a month. He tried to get my attention but won't approach me and apologise or start any sort of conversation. I've known him for so many years and I wish I didn't care like this but I wouldn't put up with his BS. What do I do?? I don't want to wait for him and hope that he starts to reconcile what we have or had but I don't want to approach him because I believe it should be him making that effort after everything

He is bi-polar. Are you still interested?

He was great as a friend! I actually really care about him but taking things into a relationship perspective he acts so different. And I'm the only one that's still the same me. I don't understand how knowing him and being close to him for so many years he would react and respond differently once dating?! Strange.

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I can't wait to go in on this when I get home, because I have a few observations about the Capricorn male, seeing that my father and ex-lover were Capricorns..

So stay tuned and it won't be pretty.

Yeah let me know I would be interested. My mothers a capricorn. But male capricorns are not exactly like the females

well I am kinda living the same experience, unfortunately. I have dated this cap. man for almost a year, we were very fine. he was caring and loving. He admired my intelligence, my job, my career, my life and never stopped telling me that he never met anyone like me.. that he loved me, that I am the one for him and that he never considered someone to be the mother of his children like he is seeing me being that one.

Things got very serious and families got involved, we were prepping for our engagement party.. when 2 weeks before, he started having big issues at his job.
He said things were getting very complicated and that he is in deep ****. He said for now he can't handle anything but his very serious work related issue that may take him to jail if not solved.

He was communicating less and less, we were not calling anymore .. only texting from time to time .. I was very concerned about our relationship, I planned a future with this man, I was already in love with him and I started being very pushy, being a scorpio :( it was very tough.

Then we stopped talking at all, it has been a month and a half now ..
I didn't understand and I still don't .. I sent messages saying I needed an explanation to this .. he doesn't reply in most cases but when he does he says the same thing again that he wants to have some time to handle his problems.

I am stopping all kind of communication, deleted him from FB, uninstalled whatsapp and Skype .. he didn't care less.

I know I have to move on but it is so hard ..

Kells,relax and let that man solve his own problems, before you end up having to call the po on him.

When your dating a capricorn man you have to learn and prepare to spend a lot of time alone, because the relationship itself is about being apart. And capricorn believe in *absence makes the heart grow fonder* so they so. Im a scorpio woman and this capricorn man has been ignoring me too over a month so your not alone. If he needs to solve his issues give him space. If your both right for each other and you say you care about him like you say you do then you will wait, and he will come back and make things work. If you both care like you say then this will get resolved. But he does care there's just no way knowing he does because he won't really talk about it, and the fact you deleted Skype and whatsapp. He will miss the attention and you I'm fact. Just let him do what he needs to do. And if he's worth it he will be back. Stay strong fellow scorpio

My capricorn man is the sweetest man at one minute.... Then they most coldest persons I've ever come across???? I wish I had looked into capricorn men before I got myself this deep in.... Cause now I can't live without him. No matter how mean he is, I'd still pick him over anyone else in this world,.... I feel crazy for loving this man!!!!

That's their trademark.
One minute a lover, next minute a stranger.

Who can live this way? Get out with your sanity, ma!

You just may be! Cold and Crazy make for a bad union!

I feel the exact same! Their just my drug and we believe it's all worth it in the end

I was treated similarly by a girl friend of mine. There is a line between what is and is not acceptable. She stole money from me and went completely psycho. She then apologized but did not offer my money back. She wanted to remain friends. I cut her off like a bad cancer and considered it money well spent. I have no time for being treated disrespectfully, and neither should you. My favorite thing to do with losers like yours is forget the whole thing and smile. No bitterness, no anger, no regrets. Just amnesia. And ignore any further attempts the dude makes to contact you. Let him be his own problem, not yours. Focus on other things; many fish in the sea and all that.

<p>capps are ******** sorry!!! i dated one or 1 1/2. At first being a pisces i wanted to take it slow and didnt even want a relationship..HE KEPT PURSUING UNTIL MY DUMB *** GAVE IN! And boy why did i do that he led me on bigtime!! We lived 3 hrs away but i thought we were good cause he showed me i was all he needed.. WRONG!! The B**** was cheating the whole time. I had signs but looking back i ignored them all because i really felt he was loyal...1st sign He wanted to come c me rather than me come c him<br />
2nd sign... He stop calling so much and only text<br />
3rd sign.. everytime we would have *** i would get a smell ( last 3mnths of the relationship guess when cheating started)<br />
4rth ,,, He made sure when i came to visit i didnt forget anything behind( wow!!!!)<br />
5th and the biggest hurt of it all He wouldnt even get on **** anymore... which was sickening and never ever happened to me in all my 30 years on this earth i was truly dismayed....<br />
In the end he denied everything ...like they do and i changed my number and didnt call him again.... He was a waste of 2 years .. he was DISLOYAL, LIAR, MANIPULATOR, SMOOTHE TALKER, LADIES MAN ,SHY BUT STILL SECRETLY WANTED TO BE SEEN BY OTHER WOMEN, SELFISH AND BASICALLY DIDNT GIVE A **** ABOUT ANYONE!!!! WHEN YOU SEE A CAP MAN RUN OR DOGGG THEM OUT LIKE THEY DO US AND THEN LEAVE EM ALONE LIKE A DrOp OF A DIME,,,, THEY MITE JUST CHANGE THEIR WAYS AND REALIZE FOR 1 THAT SHYT THEY TRY AND PULL DOESNT WORK ON A PISCES CHICK......SO **** THEM 2!!!!!!!!</P>

Capricorn men are seriously a handfull. I should know ofcourse because i am dating one. or so i think. They are very fickleminded and wayward. One minute they are hot one minute they are cold. They do not express themselves always..and they shut down. They can go days and weeks without talking to you but then they will sporadically text you out of the blue..i miss you..i'm always thinking of you..bull **** like that. They are the kings of MIND ******* and mind games..if they need their space they won't tell you but rather disappear like genies..they are so ******* annoying..but they're sweet..they are loyal..they are ambitious..they are great guys..but their bad traits are their downfalls.

Wow.....I thought it was just me and I was going crazy about the cap man in my life. He does the same thing...gets real nice flirty and then POOF ice cold. We work together but at different locations. We are both married. I am trying to get out of my marriage. I have never asked him about his. We recently spent a full weekend together. It was wonderful. But he did somethings which confuse the heck out of me. He took me to his work and I met one of his co-workers. Um....I am not the girl in any of his pictures on his desk...so what is that worker going to think? Then...he takes me to his apartment...waves to the nieghbors like nothing. I know the nieghbors dont know me...mite ask 'who was that girl'. During our 3 day weekend...the wife sent a text once. Once in three days so I know something is not good at his home...but too scared to even ask. He pursued me...he has shown up at my work to 'surprise' me. He calls me at my work at least once a week. He hates one of my guy friends, and I asked him if he would rather I not see him etc and he said, Nope I am okay with it. We have been talking for about 3 months. He tells me to text him all the time but then I dont get a reply. In truth...we usually dont go more than 12 hours without texting each other unless its the weekends and he is at home on 'lockdown'. But then he usually sneaks a text to me. I have told him that I do adore him...proud of him...cherish him...trust him. He does say nice things to me every once in awhile. Like I am pretty, sexy amazing but they are far and few between. Or he just texts ditto. He loves to keep me guessing and as he puts it "keep me on my toes". He has said that he is scared that I will loose interest if he bends to my will and if he doesnt keep me guessing. But doesnt he understand it drives me mad and I want to run away? I am at the point of falling...and think I should run away as fast as I can. But the man has a hold on me that I have never felt before...but what does he plan on doing with me? Keep me as his mistress forever?

@shanny68
Dude. DUDE! dude. What in the world?! Run like the wind. You are about to fall in love with a married man? Number one, get a divorce. Learn to be alone and happy with yourself first and foremost! You don't need a man, trust me. When you have dealt with your own demons and have become happy alone, then let a man into your life, but only if he's worthy and treats you RIGHT. The guy you describe is a douche, and if I were in your shoes, I'd forget he was ever born and continue my own life with no regrets.

He's not responding because he owes you money. Think of it in a positive light as $250 well spent to get rid of the loser! Lesson learned.

They are self absorbed. If he was young he wasn't ready. They love attention but their life is the only thing that counts.

Not true whatsoever. Our hearts are big and will care for the simplest forms of life. We do love attention. However we would sacrifice our own happiness to see a loved one smile.

So true u r abt the capricorn male ...i cn understand you completely cos i too hv bn through xctly t same incident .These guys nva responds bck no mattr hw mch involved u wr wit him.

I am a leo woman seeing a cap man. Not all men are the same in any sign. This man I am seeing does get quiet on me,but I dont get crazy with him when he does. I talk to him an tell him how I am feeling. They are very serious about work and sometimes puts it before their love life. He chased me first and i think they really love the chase. I didnt give into him easy and he told me first that he loved me. Just recently, I was feeling ignored. I come right out and told him if he needs space I will be glad to give it to him. He then opened up to me and told me he had stress from his job. I supported him with that and told him I can not read your mind and to please tell me whats going on with him so i dont blame myself and think it is something I had said or done. He told me he was sorry he had made me feel that way. Caps are very serious about who they love if they really love you but work is always first. They are kinda shy but more private until they feel they can fully trust you. It takes time with them because they have big hearts. I am a leo woman and I know it takes time for me to trust also. I dont think all caps or leos are the same. I know caps want to do the chasing but once you get him you have to talk to him but do not be controlling.They dont like that but who does. Caps that are older i think are better men. A cap will be faithful if he trully loves you. They are tigers in bed and playful which i like. Being a leo myself, i have helped him open up his sexual side. He tells me i am wild in bed but he likes it. Remember no matter how much a cap loves you, he does not like being controled, he is job first, he loves affection, he wants support in his job and likes compliments, (who dont) loyal, funny, does not like insults, and wants to feel he is the man of the house. The key is keep him satisfied in bed like any man would want. lol

Help! I am a capricorn woman. I have been flirting/texting a cappy man. We have known each other for 2 yrs. we meet while going thru our divorces. Turns out he knows my family and we have mural friends. We decided to get together and have a fun night! No strings! It was amazing! Great sex! Me being a capricorn... Wowzers! I felt more than just sex, I know he felt something too. He got all weird and distant. Then we talked again.. Hint to meet up again and he got cold. I realized I had feelings for him. I told him and he responded: I'm very sorry. This is why I can't do the casual thing. It makes me feel horrible and they last thing I wanted was to hurt you. That was 2 wks ago and I have not made contact! Does he like me? Or what? Any male cappy out there to help clarify? Thanks!

@Stevie98
He's only interested in a casual thing. Sex only. He freaked out because you "caught feelings." Feelings that he doesn't have.

Reading all of these stories makes me feel less alone and confused because the same thing is hapenning to me!!
I really don't understand him. We've known each other for about 9 months and when we met I had a boyfriends but he was interested in me, so I said we could be just friends. My boyfriend was actually a complete ******* who cheated on me so I broke up with him. This cap was there for me through it all and he was so so patient, sweet and understanding. Whenever we were together I would feel so comfortable and happy around him, he was honestly one of the nicest guys I've ever met. But then out of no where a month ago I was supposed to come over to his house, but he never told me when so I ended up waiting for 3 hours for his text and just went home. I was furious and expected him to call me the next day saying sorry and explaining what happened but he didn't. He ignored my texts and my calls and everything and still has for a MONTH now. I'm going crazy, I was falling in love with him and then he just took everything away so easily? I know he cares about me but I just don't understand how he could do this, he was the one that wanted a 'serious relationship' with me and talked about our future and all these things now he's just being a complete *******!!! I try to leave him alone and just let him come to me when he wants but it's so hard, we hung out every day and when he didn't we texted constantly. I've never been so hurt in my life, he promised so many things to me and now I have no idea what to do. How do I get him to talk to me or get him back!!??

What I can say to you, save yourself a heart ache and try to do other things besides him. when u a not calling he will wonder what u a up to and come back they are always interested in chasing

Cap are just money and job lovers.. not a sensible person... just a practical ones... hate them

So true...my cap lover too wanted money from me ..when i denied he stop txtng me ...otherwise before this money incident he was like completly mad about me ...he used to get angry if i didnt txt him evn fir 2-3 hrs. .

Omg. Please listen to my story.

Ok so 3 years ago I met this Cap. At first there were sparks but I, as a Pisces, was very cautious with jumping into a relationship with him. I didn't do anything with him- THANK GOD!! We continued to talk for the first 6 months and he began to become impatient with me, pressuring me to have something serious, and lashing out at me after I proposed to just be friends.

Anyways, we continued to stay friends, which I think was only on my part because I felt that he was only going along with it to get something in return eventually. One day, after knowing him for 2 years, he asked to borrow $250 and promised to give me back double. I, being naive, gave it to him. When I hadn't heard from him in a while I began to worry and started calling and texting him and every once in a while he would answer with smiley faces. WTF?! It dawned on me that he must have calculated this plan to hurt me so that he could get the satisfaction of getting me back for the hurt I caused him.

I left it alone and did not hear from him in over a year. His friend kept calling me acting like him and the Cap guy had a falling out, which i knew was a lie because the friend barely knew me enough to confide in me. Just recently he called me from another number and I hung up the minute he said who he was. He now won't stop texting me and apologizing for what he did.

Trust me, when you've brushed your hands of it and forgotten about it he will wonder what happened to all of the attention you were giving him. The trick to these guys is that they love knowing that they have something over any woman's head they were involved with. Don't show any emotion and don't talk about how you feel. When you show them that you're above it, they panic.

Hi keknec same has happened to me."...he was muslim...reyaz ahmed..he was after me..praising me all time...n i was mad at him."but we differ in religions ..as i am hindu...as we know they are glued to ground truth...he changed overnight..n suddenly his ex appeared in scenario..i was so helpless..his frnds were so kind .they were too even cud nt find..

They are crazy ..trust a Scorpio woman with too much experience with them..Run away quick

Yes they can be grounded financially stable and power freaks, friendly and target to get what they want socially or with money. but this is linked to insecurity. They want to be liked by everyone but will step on who they want to get what they want.

I was ripped to shreds by a Capricorn broke my heart weeks i felt like Sh!t and he made me feel worthless and took my dignity and power. He tried hard to woo me as I didn't want him at first, and I fell for him treated him like a king cooked, cleaned back massages caring in every way. I went on holiday and when I came back he dumped me with no good reason after 6 months of us dating he said he just don't have feelings for me but likes me a lot wants it to work but don't believe it will??

Capricorn's have split personalities they are never one person in one week. They like what they cant get They insult without feeling a thing but they feel it when they are insulted.They are cold emotionless individuals and stay nice only if you stay hard to get from the start they can never find out too early your into them or that you love them before they love you.

I wanted to contact him only to be friends but were not friends as he ignores my calls and was rude when last contact was made.I wish we could talk but im soo hurt and i hate the way he used and disposed of me. But he was so alluring and nice at the start spent money, time.And came across as an amazing deep individual but he was really an arrogant shallow person who hides behind his money and has no substance without it. The money makes people respect and like him and gets him women. But I never asked for anything and wanted him for the person he pretended to be.
Nasty calculated, and manipulative which means nothing is what its seems with a Cap. I would never date one again only ever be friends with a Capricorn male.

Will they ever have a heart or see when they hurt people.

You just told the whole story of my last relationship with a Capricorn!! Scary. I'm back off another Capricorn that im dating. And if he dont come to me to make this work I will NEVER date another Capricorn ever again in my life!

Im a Gemini met a Cap man and I dont care what a person zodiac is.Respect is due in any relationship..Mines acted a fool and I acted one back..he avoids and I dont care I still text..send topless pics like nothing changed.he did wrong not me so the fact he still just stares@me when at same place or fact he wont tell me to leave him alone..I wont....not afraid of Mr.Cap..lol

Be very very aware of the Mer_Goat... The one I was dating as the nicest, most responcible, most intelligent guy I had met in a looooooonnnnngggg time. Lol... I was smitten... And it was then when the feelings intensified between the both of us, and he knew that he had me firmly in his twisted tight rope... He changed like the NIGHT changes to Day. It was so swift I didn't even see it coming. The phone calls stopped, the cute texts stopped, the visits stopped... All of that was replaced by him constantly changing date times, and half truths about our next meet and greet... I have never been a situation where a relationship seemed to dissolve for no particular reason as it did with that Capricorn... He HURT me big time... Screw him and anyone like him!

Will the Capricorn ever come back and be sorry for the hurt?

Hi I have been seing this capricorn young male im 32 and he is 24yrs old when we met and exchanged numbers he txted me to meet up. We had sex love making as it was extremely hot and then hugged after . But tgen he didnt want sex he just wanted to hold me tight which was even better.we both work on a mine site I do two wks on and he sees me when he is working at the same mine site.butc I found out when I got bk from my wk break that he had included a new grl for drinking now she has a man but I wasnt worried until he stopped calling me or responding to my txts. One night me and him and our friends were drinking at the bar and she turned up but I noticed she was acting strange by looking at him it made me uncomfortable but he bought her a drink and not me .she then told everyone she was going home.about half hour later I said I was going to bed he asked me if I was mad with him and I said no im need to finish my timesheets he asked me if I could txt him in an hour because he wanted to spend time with me tonight and I said ok,wenever ur ready.so I later txted him in one hour he didnt respond until I called him he had gne to a town with his mates 45mins away.he said he be bk at 11pm.so I left my door unlocked he finally arrived with his dvd and bloody ****.i was too tired ti bother with sex so he talked my ear off which didnt bother me,he asked me if I was mad with him and I said im ok but he kept asking and saying if I was angry with him he will cry cause he didnt want me ti be unhappy.so I said why that grl was acting strange he said it felt like eyes was watching behind him so he turned around and she was staring at him so I said why did u buy her a drink then and he said we just friends and I said ok.but the next morning my friend told me he had txted that grl .my grl thinks there is smthing

I've been living with and engaged to a Capricorn man for about a year and a half. He is also very moody, seems almost bipolar and does NOT communicate.. it's so frustrating! What bothers me the most (besides the lack of communication) is that ever since he moved in our sex life has become almost non-existent. I have to add I have 2 teenage daughters and he has a son that doesn't live with us that he misses very much.. we are also having major financial problems as I am out of work, he just got his job back after being laid off for several months (he wants to find a different profession so even that is not necessarily a good thing) and I'm letting him use my car to get to work as he has a job and I don't. Everything I read is about Cap men being horny and wanting sex all of the time but in this case I'm the one who is horny 24/7 & I feel hurt that he doesn't seem interested in sex. He actually opened up one night and said he's depressed over our financial situation, not seeing his son, that we can't ever go out and do anything fun, and he's tired from this job he hates.. he wants more for us. Still, I can be depressed and still want sex. The rare occasion we do have it he's not at all passionate like he used to be. Am I being unreasonable and selfish or could this be normal for the situation we're in right now?

The Cap is not very sexual because they focus more on ambition and money

So you fell for a charming guy. Crazy guys could be charming too...so drop him even if you have to kiss the 250 goodbye! You are worth the lesson: Don't fall for a Capricorn, not a man, a female friend, a trusted boss, none of them. All signs can have crazies...but it seems the Capricorns have cornered the crazy lot! No wonder people don't want to have Capricorn kids and pray their babies are born before or after the sign! They play games with themselves to pretend they are up there and 'happening'. That is when they lie and keep secrets. And when things get real, well, they've got to dis you. Consider yourself lucky.

Why why why are they like that i was falling in love with him. all i want is an apology.

Screw his apology. Do him one better and forget he ever lived. You'll be happier:)

Capricorns, men and women, are kind of bipolar and confused. They are sad people and I feel sorry for them. It doesn't mean they are not smart. Emotionally disturbed individuals can be very smart. But they can be crazy and drive others crazy too! They are best to be left to deal and mingle with other Capricorns!

I was talking to a capricorn dude man they are bi polar and oh yes they do dissapear and stop talking to you they make u feel like **** and they are so damn confusing!!!!!

They are negative usually, and a downer. If you keep yourself in a good mood and a good place they have to create distance. It is like it bothers them to be around normally content people

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Lmao

HELP ME PLZ...SOMEBODY PLZ HELP ME...I MET THIS CAPPY LATE 2010 ONE EARLY MORNING WHEN I WAS LEAVING THE GYM.APPARENTLY HE WAS OBSERVING ME FOR A WEEK BEFORE HE APPROACHED ME,HE ASK IF HE COULD HAVE A WORD WITH ME I SAID NO AS I WAS IN A HURRY,HOWEVER HE ASKED TO WALK WITH ME AND SAID NO HE STILL DID.WE WALKED AND TALKED FOR A FEW MINUTES THEN WE EXCHANGED NUMBERS AND WE PARTED.OH HE ASKED ME IF I HAD A BF AND I SAID YES AS I WANTED TO BE HONEST.THE SECOND TIME I SAW HIM HE ASED ME TO CHOOSE BETWEEN HIM AND MY BF,I LIKED HIM AND MY BF WAS ACTING LIKE A TOTAL ***,BUT I TOLD HIM THAT IT WAS IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO CHOOSE BECUZ I WAS ONLY MEETING HIM FOR THE SECOND TIME AND THAT WAS TOO SOON TO MAKE ANY DECISIONS.HE WAS DISAPPOINTED BUT WE CONTINUED COMMUNICATIONS,HOWEVER LATER ON WE EVENTUALLY HAD SEX,HE STILL EXPRESSED HIS LIKINGS FOR ME.WE HAD SEX AGAIN OF WHICH HE DISCHARGED IN ME AND THEN GOT MAD THAT I SHOULD TAKE THE MORNING AFTER PILL TO WASH OUT THE ***** AS HE WASN'T READY FOR KIDS AND HE DIDN'T WANTED ME TO HAVE HIS KIDS.SO I CURSED HIM OUT AND DIDN'T SPOKE TO HIM FOR THE ENTIRE 2011 UNTIL D LATE PART WHEN I WENT TO GYM AND HE SAW ME AND ASKED ME FOR MY NEW NUMBER,I GAVE IT TO HIM.HE WAITED ALONG WHILE TO CONTACT ME BUT EVENTUALLY HE DID.HE TOLD ME HE WANTED FOR US TO MEET AND TALK BUT I WAS RELUCTANT BECUZ I WAS SOME WHAT SCARED OF BEING HURT AGAIN.HOWEVER I STARTED SHOWING HIM SOME INTEREST BUT THE MORE I DID D MORE HE PULLED AWAY.WE ALWAYS SEND DIRTY TEXT TO EACH OTHER,BUT ONE DAY I SENT HIM ONE AND HE TOLD ME TO STOP BECUZ HE WAS NOT MY MAN.I WAS EMBARRASS ,I SAW HIM AT A FOOTBALL GAME THE OTHER DAY AND HE KEPT ON STEERING AT ME,SAW HIM SOME MORE TIMES SINCE AND HE KEPT STEERING AT ME,BUT HE EVENTUALLY TOLD ME TO STOP TEXT HIM.AND NO MATTER WHAT I TEXT WHETHER GOOD OR BAD HIS ONLY REPLY IS STOP TEXTING ME AND ALL THIS YERNING FOR ME TO STOP TEXT HIM CAME RIGHT AFTER I OPEN UP HOW I REALLY FELT ABOUT HIM.I AM SO CONFUSED? DOES HE HATE ME?...

They are crazy I tell you. You are lucky if he leaves you alone. He can drive you crazy! That is how a Capricorn gets her/his power by stealing it from others! Crazy!

i'm a capricorn man .. and i'm telling you , you will never understand the things that i don't allow you to understand .. the guy got money problems that's all ;)

So how does it work for you...this not letting someone understand what you don't 'allow' them to understand? Anyway, I have yet to see a happy Capricorn of any age!

Hope you can help me. I am a cappy woman. And I'm falling for a cappy man. We have been friends for years. Not close friends. But we decided to have a casual sex night. No strings. It was awesome! As being a cappy myself. I didn't expect to like him... I told him how I felt and he said sorry this is way I can't do the casual thing. Does he like me? I have not made any contact in 2 wks. I know he felt it too. Please help!

Cut off all communication! He shouldn't treat you like that.

Omg, I am a in a similar situation with a Capricorn guy, who just completely ignores me. I was in a relationship with this guy since 2008 June. We were official since 2008 July or August. Then in 2010 January he leaves me to go study abroad in his home town country. He comes back that June 2010 and then he left again in August and came back in June 2011. He had been so sweet online and we talked all the time. When he came back in June he was afraid he would fail his exam, and he found out his score, he had failed it. Even before he got his scores, he was really rude and didn't want to see me. I even had found a temporary job near his house so I could visit him, but it was painful driving there. He only made out with me on my birthday and nothing else. Then he broke up with me in late July after getting his results. Foolishly i kept texting him hoping he would want to get back with me. He finally called me and eventually asked to meet. When I met up with him, he didn't talk about anything else but his new job. He suddenly asked me if I was made at him, and asked me to tell him 10 things I hated about him. That was very random, and I was still a little hurt but I said, I dont hate anything about you. He pressed on further. Fine I said, I hate everything about you. I hate how you don't express anything. He walked out of the bar and left me there, "You know what he said. I thought we had something. But I guess not." I followed him out, stupidly. "You mean a lot to me, I told him. I just feel like all you want to do is make out." " He let me follow him to his car, and I sat next to him. he was quiet. I tried to talk, but he kept ignoring me. Finally, I decided I would leave in 2 mintutes. He laid down and went to sleep. I guess that was a trick. Okay, just drop me to my car then, I said. "Fine he said. Go to sleep, just be quiet." I tried to sleep for a few minutes, but I couldnt. I rose to leave. "Im sorry I made you mad I said. I waited for you for a year and a half. You don't even aknowledge me and you ignore me. I dont want to just amke out, I thought I meant more than that." "Really, he said-- just make out thats how you see it?" He suddenly kissed me. I was so surprised he kissed me that I kissed him back. Soon he was telling me to give him oral and I did. I hated myself that night I went home. He never apologized once-- in fact I apologized to him for his drama. I wasn't sure if we were dating anymore, but I guess we were. He kept ignoring me. He didn't call me. He would make out with me then push me away after we got intimate. He got fustrated that I didnt want to go all the way with him. I couldn't if he couldn't express himself. One day, he was so cold after intimacy that I zoomed away in my car so mad. He wouldnt talk to me after that. I told myself I would never call him again. I did, three weeks later. he didn't pick up or respond to my texts which said that I was hurt, but if this is what he wanted, I would break up with him. He deactived his facebook that night. Next moring, he texts me back and says, "Jeez, calm down, I was sleeping I will call you latre. " he wasnt sleeping if he deactivated facebook the night before. Following day he called me and we spoke for 15 minutes about nothing in my emotional texts, just work. Then we met up a week later and he was nice. Then we met again and he was acting so slutty commenting on how sexy other females were. Next time we met again, he was perfect. In between all these weeks, he never texted, called me or contacted me once. Now he is nice when he meets me, if I text he says "Lol." He has stopped all forms of communication with me, until we are in bed-- he gets me drunk, we get intimate, he acts nice, we leave. So much for a three and a half year relationship. I don't know why is acting that way. I know he is not cheating, but at the same time-- this isnt much of a relationship. My two other guy friends who are capricorns advised me that he likes me on some level-- but he doesn't see me as more than a person who he can "have fun" with. They said even if they were super busy, if they liked a girl they would take time out to text that girl every two or three days-- as my bf used to do at one point. They told me to move on, but I am still waiting. I hope things will change. But, what to do? He is my "boyfriend," and his bday is coming up in January after my finals... what to do.. my bar exam is coming up next July.

Hope you have decided to stay away from this joker! Save yourself and Run, Run, Run away from what takes away your focus from your life.

Omg, I am a in a similar situation with a Capricorn guy, who just completely ignores me. I was in a relationship with this guy since 2008 June. We were official since 2008 July or August. Then in 2010 January he leaves me to go study abroad in his home town country. He comes back that June 2010 and then he left again in August and came back in June 2011. He had been so sweet online and we talked all the time. When he came back in June he was afraid he would fail his exam, and he found out his score, he had failed it. Even before he got his scores, he was really rude and didn't want to see me. I even had found a temporary job near his house so I could visit him, but it was painful driving there. He only made out with me on my birthday and nothing else. Then he broke up with me in late July after getting his results. Foolishly i kept texting him hoping he would want to get back with me. He finally called me and eventually asked to meet. When I met up with him, he didn't talk about anything else but his new job. He suddenly asked me if I was made at him, and asked me to tell him 10 things I hated about him. That was very random, and I was still a little hurt but I said, I dont hate anything about you. He pressed on further. Fine I said, I hate everything about you. I hate how you don't express anything. He walked out of the bar and left me there, "You know what he said. I thought we had something. But I guess not." I followed him out, stupidly. "You mean a lot to me, I told him. I just feel like all you want to do is make out." " He let me follow him to his car, and I sat next to him. he was quiet. I tried to talk, but he kept ignoring me. Finally, I decided I would leave in 2 mintutes. He laid down and went to sleep. I guess that was a trick. Okay, just drop me to my car then, I said. "Fine he said. Go to sleep, just be quiet." I tried to sleep for a few minutes, but I couldnt. I rose to leave. "Im sorry I made you mad I said. I waited for you for a year and a half. You don't even aknowledge me and you ignore me. I dont want to just amke out, I thought I meant more than that." "Really, he said-- just make out thats how you see it?" He suddenly kissed me. I was so surprised he kissed me that I kissed him back. Soon he was telling me to give him oral and I did. I hated myself that night I went home. He never apologized once-- in fact I apologized to him for his drama. I wasn't sure if we were dating anymore, but I guess we were. He kept ignoring me. He didn't call me. He would make out with me then push me away after we got intimate. He got fustrated that I didnt want to go all the way with him. I couldn't if he couldn't express himself. One day, he was so cold after intimacy that I zoomed away in my car so mad. He wouldnt talk to me after that. I told myself I would never call him again. I did, three weeks later. he didn't pick up or respond to my texts which said that I was hurt, but if this is what he wanted, I would break up with him. He deactived his facebook that night. Next moring, he texts me back and says, "Jeez, calm down, I was sleeping I will call you latre. " he wasnt sleeping if he deactivated facebook the night before. Following day he called me and we spoke for 15 minutes about nothing in my emotional texts, just work. Then we met up a week later and he was nice. Then we met again and he was acting so slutty commenting on how sexy other females were. Next time we met again, he was perfect. In between all these weeks, he never texted, called me or contacted me once. Now he is nice when he meets me, if I text he says "Lol." He has stopped all forms of communication with me, until we are in bed-- he gets me drunk, we get intimate, he acts nice, we leave. So much for a three and a half year relationship. I don't know why is acting that way. I know he is not cheating, but at the same time-- this isnt much of a relationship. My two other guy friends who are capricorns advised me that he likes me on some level-- but he doesn't see me as more than a person who he can "have fun" with. They said even if they were super busy, if they liked a girl they would take time out to text that girl every two or three days-- as my bf used to do at one point. They told me to move on, but I am still waiting. I hope things will change. But, what to do? He is my "boyfriend," and his bday is coming up in January after my finals... what to do.. my bar exam is coming up next July.

He doesn't like you. He just likes to use you for intimacy, and you keep letting that happen. Stop being so weak, get some self respect and then you can command respect. How can you expect anyone to respect you, let alone a strong Capricorn?