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I Have Trouble With Aquarians

The worst part is that I seem to be attracted to them. I've dated several Aquarian women and it's never ended well. I'm the typical Capricorn in every way and for some reason Aquarians seem so attractive in the beginning. They're full of life, light and adventure. Then their real personalities come out. They're distant, cold, controlling and insecure. They don't seem to be able to accept that not everyone thinks and acts exactly like them. My last girlfriend started the relationship by telling me all about her (ideal) self. She was all about her man, never made a serious decision without consulting him first, loved spending time with me. Then she started to withdraw and became just plain mean. She once told me that I never smiled. I calmly explained to her that I did smile. I just wasn't smiling right now because I had nothing to smile about especially since she was nagging me about not smiling. She was so insecure that she couldn't be wrong about anything. She once made a statement which was not only not true but so wrong it was actually funny. When I pointed this out she got very upset and insisted that what she said, although physically impossible, was correct. I was having a good time so I just let it go. It really wasn't a big deal. Of course she couldn't and just kept going on about it. I was finally so irritated with her and that she had pretty much ruined the nice moment we were having that I proved to her she was wrong. Her only response was "Well, it's not like I was that wrong.". I almost walked away right there. What is it about these people that make them need to control everything when they don't even know what's going on half the time. Granted she had some other things going on as well but my experiences with other Aquarians are very similar. I wish there was some way to tell before they got too close. Anyway that's my vent.

Robb82 Robb82 26-30, M 13 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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Dang that's deep. I'm an aquarius. I say just tell us we're wrong. We will believe you if you have credibility

I'm a Aquarius and I date a Capricorn we have a bond that no one can break. I'm quiet and I don't pick or talk about people. We beat up ppl who pick on others. I guess its not about your zodiac sign its about who you truly are. I love everyone and my Capricorn bf are getting closer and closer. I guess some people aren't meant to be together and on the other hand some opposites attract. Just find a real woman or man that excites you forget that sign crap go with your heart.. Sincerely true Aquarius woman

Not all Aquarian women are the same. True - sometimes we do get insecure or distant. But, that does not we don't love you or care for you ( we are not two faced, we say whatever is in our heart...if we say we care for you, then 'come hail, come storm' we will always stand beside you to help you out.) We don't run after money, we just want some strength of character in our men. We need our own space, but so what everybody needs it at one point or other. People call us fun loving and entertaining....that's absolutely true. We are not cold-hearted ( we might appear to be so, but its just a protective shield we have coz we want to protect ourselves from any misery). We suffer as much as others, only difference is that we don't whine about it. We are up to do anything, be it going for scuba-diving or visiting our man's grandparents ( everything is fun for us...even if it isn't, so that we see smile on our man's face). We are not like other girls because we don't keep on checking your contacts or messages whenever our man will turn their face. We trust them, and in return want the same. Just because we don't show our emotions much unlike other girls, that doesn't mean we don't feel anything. i am just tried of hearing this crap from other people. i am an AQUARIAN and I am proud to a one. you be with any girl in the world, but there is no like an 'Aquarian girl' and i am not saying this coz I am one of them. I am saying this because I truly feel it. SO, KINDLY DON'T BE SO JUDGMENTAL ABOUT US...

Thank you for putting that post out there, couldn't have said it better myself!!!

aquarius women are too insecure, seem like never happy unless picking on someone and very depressive to point they spread it. they are fun but for a little bit and if it is all for **** and giggles. forget opening them up, they are as closed book as possible and love to be judged by the cover. inside it is a story gone wrong.

seriously, you have ur facts wrong, we don't do the bullying bit

All Aquarians are not created equal. I'd like to think we should be judged on more than just our star signs ;)

Aquarius girl: i dated a capricorn for about 3 years i love this man soooo much i think they are the best men you can find but you guys are way too judgemental about every thing and its so hard to make you guys smile. sometimes people you love can bring the worst out in you she is still the same person its just things happen that make the person seem diffrent communication is the key good luck i hope you find the one .

Aquarius girl: i dated a capricorn for about 3 years i love this man soooo much i think they are the best men you can find but you guys are way too judgemental about every thing and its so hard to make you guys smile. sometimes people you love can bring the worst out in you she is still the same person its just things happen that make the person seem diffrent communication is the key good luck i hope you find the one .

I live with a one they aren't bad people just a little honoray

Wow I guess it's not just me. I am a Capricorn also and every Aquarius that has crossed my path I ended up not getting along with. In the beginning it was okay, but then the friendships got tricky. We either argued or lost touch. <br />
(They're full of life, light and adventure. Then their real personalities come out. They're distant, cold, controlling and insecure. They don't seem to be able to accept that not everyone thinks and acts exactly like them.)<br />
This explains my ex best friend exactly. It's the reason we aren't friends anymore.

I had the same..I mean it's not possible for me to have a relationship with aquarius.. he was too flirtous in my opinion, had too many female "friends" and not treated them only as friends..if you get what I mean.. He saw me as someone cold but I just need to take things slow..and can't really express my feelings properly. And he suddenly started to ignore my calls, not comming to apointments and I felt unloved and unimportant to him. that pissed me off so much..and i needed to end it. but geez..there was something attracting me to him.. aquarius is just too different from capricorn so he does not understand him. Libra is out of the question for me too..(dated two of them-have enought >.<)

You are totally right, I am Capricorn and I also have trouble with aquarians, I guess that for you it is better to date Taurus or Virgos. My husband's sister-in-law is aquarian and she got mad just because I did not want to do her hair, she thought that I was going to be her personal hair stylist, I told her that I did not like to do that and since then she stop talking to me, can you believe it? I am already a grown up person and I have never seen anybody like her. They really can't understand that not everyone is like them and that we are entitle to our personal opinions.

So not true, we believe in everyone having their own opinions...and I'd bet anything that she's not talking to you because you hurt her feelings by telling her no. But she will probably never admit it!

Oh boy! That sounds tough. I know I absolutely have to prove someone wrong if they won't freely admit it. Good luck!

LOL! I can see how that would be true.