I Have Trouble With Aquarians
The worst part is that I seem to be attracted to them. I've dated several Aquarian women and it's never ended well. I'm the typical Capricorn in every way and for some reason Aquarians seem so attractive in the beginning. They're full of life, light and adventure. Then their real personalities come out. They're distant, cold, controlling and insecure. They don't seem to be able to accept that not everyone thinks and acts exactly like them. My last girlfriend started the relationship by telling me all about her (ideal) self. She was all about her man, never made a serious decision without consulting him first, loved spending time with me. Then she started to withdraw and became just plain mean. She once told me that I never smiled. I calmly explained to her that I did smile. I just wasn't smiling right now because I had nothing to smile about especially since she was nagging me about not smiling. She was so insecure that she couldn't be wrong about anything. She once made a statement which was not only not true but so wrong it was actually funny. When I pointed this out she got very upset and insisted that what she said, although physically impossible, was correct. I was having a good time so I just let it go. It really wasn't a big deal. Of course she couldn't and just kept going on about it. I was finally so irritated with her and that she had pretty much ruined the nice moment we were having that I proved to her she was wrong. Her only response was "Well, it's not like I was that wrong.". I almost walked away right there. What is it about these people that make them need to control everything when they don't even know what's going on half the time. Granted she had some other things going on as well but my experiences with other Aquarians are very similar. I wish there was some way to tell before they got too close. Anyway that's my vent.