My husband is disabled, we just got home from the E.R. He's feeling better but the DR can't seem to find a cause for his illness. He's been sick for years but lately it's been getting worse. The complaints about his pain is almost constant now. I try my best to be positive and do all I can, but it's not helping and I feel useless. The negative descriptions of his pain and depression are starting to get me. It's hard to concentrate and I haven't been able to do any artwork or run, 2 or my fav things. I feel so bad and so terribly selfish for complaining about my feelings I don't know what to do. I say my prayers daily I ask for strength and patience and understanding. I came across this website by accident, I hope someone can relate. I hope I'm not going nuts. Anybody out there? Thanks for listening.