HelpLittle background: I've been with my husband for a total of 17 years. He is my best friend and I love him with all my heart. We have had our ups & downs but have I think a pretty strong marriage. Anyway back in July/Aug time fr
Fast forward to today: Things have escalated. Started off by him saying that I was beautiful, sweet... you get the idea. I don't hear these things at home so it felt good to hear them from somewhere. I have a very negative image of myself. We use to only talk over e-mail at work but now we chat over text.. Never why my husband is around. I can't explain it.. I have feelings for this guy but I'm not in love with him if that makes sense. He and I have talked several times about how much he likes me but doesn't't't want me to leave my husband.. Well no crap I'm not going to.
He keeps making comments about wanting to have sex with me. My husband is the only man I have ever been with. At first it was just a fun time talking to this guy. Hearing nice things and him putting a smile on my face. Although I've thought about doing things with him I can't imagine actually taking that next step. The most he and I have done is hug. He's tried to kiss me a few times but I always turn away. I don't know what to do next. He keeps telling me that he knows hes got me and I'll be giving it up soon. Tonight he text me and asked me if I was his girlfriend. Umm.. really? This guy is a major pla