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Here is a red flag of an abusive man, not always true, but there is insight about why we want to fix men
If either you or the man are moving very fast in the relationship, that's dangerous. He might be acting very charming and loving, but he knows he can't keep up this act very long, so he moves even faster. You, in your needy state, may be moving fast because he feels 'familiar' - like he 'gets' you. That can be a dangerous sign that you're rushing to 'fix' him, too. Somewhere inside, you believe (maybe unconsciously) if you 'fix' him, you have finally 'fixed' your father.